Kya aap ko bhi koi ladki pasand hai, jise aap ptana chahte ho lekin uske attitude ko dekh kar aap ghabra jate ho? Ye sochne lag jate ho ki agar main use baat karta hu toh kahi wo reject na karde ya kahi aapki insult na ho jaye. To ab yeh attitude wali ladki ke bare main soch kar ghabrane ki koi jarurat nahi hai, kyunki woh bhi aapki or meri tarah normal insaan hi hoti hai. Or waise bhi aaj ke time me ladko ko attractive or attitude wali ladkiyan hi pasand aati hai. Ya yu kahin jinhe pane ki koshish sirf aap hi nahi kar rahe but aapke or bhi kafi friends uski taraf attracted hai but usswe baat karni ki himmat kisi mein bhi nahi hai ya phir itna confidence bhi nahi hai aap mein ki use jake baat karo.
Bas apne friends ke sath school ya college me bhaith kar ek dusre ko bolte hi reh jate hai ki wo meri hai or uske sath wali teri hai. Or apni Isi soch ke karan hum hamesha piche reh jate hai or itne me koi or ladka jo ki thodi himmat dikha pata hai or aapse kam good looking hai wo us ladki ko pata kar le jata hai. Or hum or aap bas bhaithe hi reh jate hai, lekin ab hume apne andar yehi badlav lane honge, khud par himmat ke sath sath bharosa bhi rakhna sikhna hoga. Kyunki kahi bhaith kar pachtane se acha to aap us ladki se baat kare. Fir chahe wo aapko reject hi kyun na karde, lekin uski rejection ko face karke hi aapke dimag me jo darrr hai wo khatam ho jayega. Aur isse atleast aap me himmat toh aayegi. Agli baar itna daroge toh nahi. Or kya pata wo ladki aapko pahle se hi like karti ho, or wo bas aapka wait kar rahi ho ki kab aap usse aa kar baat karoge or kab wo aapko han bolegi.
Wese to ladkiyan bahut si type ki hoti hai. Jaise ki simple nature ki, arrogant nature ki, ya friendly nature ki. Lekin humare dil ko wohi bhati hai, jisko sabhi pasand karte hai ya aap ise is tarah se bhi dekh sakte hai ki jisse dekh kar sabke muh khulle hi reh jaye or us ladki ko dekh kar sabhi ladke yehi soche ki aisi girlfriend honi chahiye yaar. Wo khawat to aap ne suni hi hogi ki Jab tak kaam ko karne mein mushkil na ho tab tak maja hi nahi aata us kaam ko karne ka aur na us cheez ki milne ka. Toh bas ab attitude wali ladki ke liye bhi aisa hi kuch hai, kaam mushkil hai lekin maza bhi utna hi hai. To chaliye ab shuru karte hai janna, or uske liye aapko bas niche diye gaye steps ko ache se padh kar unhe follow karna hoga, jisse ki aapko pata chal jayega, ki kisi attitude wali ladki ko kaise pataya jaye
Uske Friends se Jaan Pehchan Banaye
Jab aap uske friends ke sath apni jaan-pehchan banate ho, to usi time aapki aadhi problem to khud ba khud solve ho jayegi. Jaise ki aapne suna hi hoga ki koi bhi mushkil kaam achanak se bahut aasan ho jata hai, agar hume us kaam ko karne me kuch ache doston ka sath mil jata hai. Or tab wo kaam, kaam nahi rehta balki khel ban jata hai. To ab aap btaiye, ki kya aapko bhi koi beautiful ladki pasand aa gayi hai? Jise dekh kar aapko dil se lagta hai ki yehi wo ladki hai jise aap ptana chahte ho ya use apna bnana chahte ho. Bas dar hai toh uske attitude ka aur usse jyada rejection ka. Chalo ye bhi genuine hai, but hum btayenge bina rejection use kaise pataye.
Agar aap such me use ptana chahte ho, to sabse pahle aapko uske sabi karibi doston se jaan-pehchan bnani hogi. Jisse ki jab bhi aap uske doston ke ache dost ban jaoge to fir wohi log aapki is mamle me help jarur karenge or isse aapka 50% kaam to tabhi pura ho jayega. Fir uske baad apne kisi common friend ko bole ki wo us ladki se aapka introduce karwaye. Fir jab bhi aap us ladki se milne jao to sab kuch aaram se kare, jaise ki usse aaram se mile, kisi bhi tarah ki jald bazi na kare. Jisse ki aapka kaam bigad jaye ya jisse ki aapka first impression hi us par kharab padhe, kyunki aap ne kahi par suna to hoga hi ki first impression is a last impression or uske baad us ladki ko apni pahli meeting(mulakat) me apne aim(irade) ke baare me na btaye. Bas use apna dost bnane ki koshish kare, taki use aapke bare me sochne ka time mil sake. Bas apna first impression decent aur standardized rakhein.
Use Compliment De
Hamesha is baat ko yaad rakhe ki har ladki ko apni khoobsurati ki tareef sunna bahut pasand hota hai, or ye baat specially(khastoor par) attitude wali ladkiyon par laghu hoti hai. Kyunki unhe to apni har cheez ki tarrif sunna bahut pasand hota hai or isi baat ko dhyaan me rakhte hue aapko bhi bas unki sachi tarrif hi karni hogi. Aur aap unke nature pe compliment karte ho toh wo aur bhi impress hogi kyunki usne shayad ab tak bas apne attitude ko leke negative comments hi sune ho sakte hai.
Uske baad jab bhi aapko usse baat karne ka mauka mile to bas in cheezo ka dhyan rakhna. Jisse ki use awkward(ajib) mehsus na ho. Or aap uski in cheezo par tarrif kar sakte ho. Jaise ki uski smile, dressing sense, uske baat karne ka tarrika or bhi bahut sari cheeze hai jin par aap uski tarrif kar sakte ho or wo bhi uske samne hi. Jisse ki wo aapse bahut jyada or jaldi impress hone ke chances hai or fir aap se milne ke baad jab bhi wo aapke bare me sochegi to wo acha hi sochegi. Or kya pata ini sab baaton ki vjah se wo aapko pasand karna bhi shuru karde. Bas hamesha yaad rakha ki har cheez ko limit se kare. Taki jaisa aap chaho wessa hi ho or us ladki ko pata bhi na chale ki jo bhi ho rha hai wo sab kuch aap chahte ho, bas aapko hamesha us ladki ko aise show karna hoga jaise ki sab kuch uski pasand ka ho rha hai ya use dhyaan me rakh kar kiya ja rha hai. Ye aapka great start hoga.
Kabhi Bhi Paiso Ko Lekar Kanjoosi Na Kare
Dekhiye, agar aap chahte hai ki koi attractive or attitude wali ladki aapki girlfriend ho, jise sabi pasand karte ho to aapko apni pocket(jeb) ko hamesha garam hi rakhna hoga. Agar aap us ladki ke close friends wale group ke sath friends ban jate ho. To kabhi bhi kahi ghumne jane ka plan banta hai, jisme ki wo ladki bhi ghumne chal rahi hai to apni pocket ko garam rakhe. Or aisa bhi nahi hai ki aap hajaro rupaye hi le jane ka sochne lag jao, bas kum se kum aapke pass itne rupaye ho ki aapki un logo ke bich me respect bani rahe. Aur bas apni pocket mein itne paise rakhna ki aap apna or uska expenditure kar sako jab wo aapke sath akeli ho. Aisa kare ki jab bhi wo ladki kuch saman leti hai to wha aap paise katwao or ladki ko force karo ki paise to aap hi doge. Aisa karne se ladki aap par jarur lattu(fida) ho jayegi. Kyunki ladkiyon ko wo ladke bahut pasand ate hai, jo ki unhe unke paise na kharchne de kisi bhi cheez ko kharidne me. Matlab paiso ke mamle mein kanjoosi aapke liye nahi hai.
Aapki Dressing Sense Achi Honi Chaiye
Aaj- kal ki generation ke time me chahe koi bhi ladka ya ladki ho, lekin unka dressing sense hi unki personality ko reflect karta hai. Us attitude wali ladki jisse aap ptana chahte ho agar wo modern type ki ladki hai, to usi ki tarah aapko bhi modern banna hoga. Matlab apna dressing sense uski choice ka rakhna. Jaruri nahi hai ki aap bhi usi ki trah mehnge kapde kharido, aap branded kapdo ki sale lagne tak ka intezaar kar sakte ho. Fir uske baad jab ache or branded kapdo me sale lagti hai to tab aap unhe kum price me kharrid sakte ho. Usi ke sath apna hair style bhi acha rakhe, agar aapka hair style hi acha nahi hoga to branded kapde pehanne ke baad bhi aapki personality kharab ho sakti hai. Isliye hamesha fashionable rahiye, jise english me Up-To-Dated kha jata hai. Agar aap chahe toh use bhi advise le sakte hai, ki mujhe kaise hairstyle rakhna chahiye jo mujhe suit kare. Isse aapko uski choice bhi pata chalegi aur use impress karne mein ek step aage badoge.
Hamesha Acha Behave(Bartav) Kare
Agar aap shy type ke person hai, to aapke liye ye kaam khud hi aasan ho jata hai. Kyunki ladkiyon ko shy type ladke bade hi cute lagte hai. Or agar aap dusre kisi type ke ho to aapko is par thoda kaam karna hoga. Ladkiyon ko kabhi aggressive or ignorant ladke pasand nahi aate. Hamesha yaad rakhe ki ladkiyan bahut hi jyada sensitive hoti hai. Unhe wo ladke ache nahi lagte jo ki apni khud ki galati hone par bhi ladkiyon par chillate hai ye gussa karte hai. Isiliye aap jab bhi us ladki se mile to apne face par ek pyaari si smile bnaye rakhe. Isi ke sath hi aap jab bhi us ladki se baat kar rahe ho to us ladki ke sath eye contact bhi bnaye rakhe. Eye contact bnaye rakhne se aapko self confidence milega or us ladki ke sath aapke ek alag sa rista ban jayega or ek naye bound ki bhi shuruwat hogi. Is baat ka dhyaan rakhe ki baat-chit karte time bich bich me thoda idhar-udhar bhi dekhe, jisse ki ladki ko aisa na lage ki aap use ghurr rahe ho ya use gusse se dekh rahe ho. Aap ladki ko apni intelligency se bhi impress karne ki koshish kar sakte ho. Hamesha ladki ke samne sarif bane rahe, kyunki ladkiyon ko shareef ladke hi pasand hote hai. Unhe ladna jhagadna bilkul pasand nahi hota or isliye wo is type ke ladko se durr hi rehna pasand karti hai.
Ladki Se Touch Me Rhene Ke Liye Koi Rasta Dhundhe Facebook Ya Watsapp Group Join Kare
Jaise bhi karke aapko us ladki se touch me rehne ka koi rasta dhundna hoga. Jaise ki aaj kal to social networking sites ke dwara chalayi gayi app(applications) ki madad se aap usse judd sakte ho, for example Facebook, Twitter, Google+, Instagram, or etc. Inme se koi bhi aisa app chune jo ki aap dono hi use(istemaal) karte ho, jaise ki facebook. Aap use facebook par friend request bhej sakte ho. Aur agar aap ache friends nahi hai toh apni kuch recognisition de sakte ho jaise ki hum yaha mile the, wagera wagera, jise wo apki request accept karle. Ya aap facebook ya watsapp par koi bhi group join karlo, jo ki uske friends ke dwara bnaya gaya ho or jisme wo bhi ho. Or jab bhi aap in app me kisi se baat karoge to us ladki ke baare me jarur baat kare or uski tarrif jarur kare. But haan agar use publicly itna kuch pasand na ho toh ye sab avoid karein aur uska dhyan apni taraf karne ke kuch aur tarike dhoondo. Jisse ki wo ladki aapko chah kar bhi ignore na kar paye or aapko notice karna shuru karde. Uske baad aap us ladki ko facebook par message karna shuru kar sakte hai, lekin jab tak uska reply nahi ata tab tak dusra message na bheje, nahi to wo aapko desperate samjhegi.
Isliye sab kuch aaram se or shuruwat se kare, jisse ki us ladki ka bhi aap me interest bane. Fir jab aapka usse ek level me baat-chit ka connection ban jata hai, to aap usse uske phone number ke liye puch sakte hai. Iske ilawa fir jab bhi aap us ladki se baat kare to hamesha samjhdari wali baatein hi kare. Kabhi bhi usse aise baatein na kare jo use samjh me na ati ho, ya wo aapse baat karte time bore ya irritate mehsus kare. Aisa kuch na kare tabhi aap kamiyab ho paoge.
To friends, ye the kuch lajawb or sache tips ki attitude wali ladko kaise pataye. Umeed hai ki aapko ye tips jarur samjh me aa gaye honge, lekin agar aapko fir bhi is topic me kisi bhi tarah ka koi doubt hai ya aapki koi or problem hai to aap niche diye gaye comment box par comment karke humse apni har problems and doubts share kar sakte hai. Hume aapki help karne me bahut khushi hogi. So best of luck friends.
BY LOVEGURU SHAAN HASHMI
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