61.5 फीसदी लोग प्यार के इजहार का तरीका नहीं जानते

नई दिल्ली।

विश्व की नंबर वन मैच मेकिंग सर्विस शादी डॉट कॉम ने आजकल के भारतीय युवाओं की मानसिकता को समझने के लिए सर्वे किया। जब भारतीय पुरुषों से पूछा गया कि क्या वे अपने पार्टनर से अपने प्यार का इजहार करने में विश्वास रखते हैं? इस पर 91.6 फीसदी लोगों का जवाब हां था, 0.9 फीसदी लोगों ने इस सवाल के जवाब में नहीं कहा, जबकि 7.5 फीसदी लोगों ने कहा, कर सकते हैं।

प्यार का इजहार करने में 61.5 फीसदी शादीशुदा पुरुषों को होती है परेशानी

जब इन युवकों से पूछा गया कि क्या वह बार-बार अपने पार्टनर के सामने प्यार का इजहार करते हैं? तो 21.3 फीसदी शादीशुदा पुरुषों ने कहा कि वह अक्सर ऐसा करते हैं। करीब 33.4 फीसदी लोगों ने कहा कि वे विशेष मौकों पर ऐसा करते हैं। इस सवाल पर 45.3 फीसदी लोगों का जवाब था कि उन्होंने कब ऐसा किया, इस बारे में उन्हें पता नहीं।

प्यार जब इन युवकों से पूछा गया कि क्या उन्हें अपने प्यार के इजहार में परेशानी महसूस होती है? इस पर 61.5 फीसदी शादीशुदा पुरुषों ने कहा कि हम अपने पार्टनर को कितना प्यार करते हैं, हमें यह बताना नहीं आता। करीब 30.4 फीसदी लोगों ने कहा कि उनमें अपने पार्टनर के लिए प्यार का इजहार करने की भावना स्वाभाविक रूप से नहीं आती, जबकि 8.1 फीसदी लोगों ने कहा, नहीं, यह बहुत ज्यादा मुश्किल नहीं है।

जब भारतीय युवकों से पूछा गया कि अगर उन्हें कुछ अलग ढंग से प्यार का इजहार करने का मौका दिया जाए तो क्या वह ऐसा करना चाहेंगे? इस पर 74.6 फीसदी लोगों ने हां में जवाब दिया। 17.5 फीसदी लोगों ने कहा कि यह अलग-अलग चीजों पर निर्भर करेगा। 7.9 फीसदी लोगों ने कहा कि हम इसके बारे में सोचेंगे। 

ऑनलाइन सर्वेक्षण में 24 से 32 साल की उम्र के युवाओं के 6,730 जवाब आए।शादी डॉट कॉम के सीईओ गौरव रक्षित ने कहा, “यहां शादी डॉट कॉम में हमारा विश्वास है कि शादियों की नींव प्यार और समानता की बुनियाद पर टिकी होती है। एक-दूसरे के लिए अपने प्यार का इजहार करते रहना सफल विवाहित जीवन की कुंजी है।”

Smart Kaise Bana Jaye

Smart Kaise Bane? Ek common question jo har kisi ke dimag mein kabhi na kbhi toh zaroor aata hai. Kaye baar toh hum personality ko blame karke kisi se baat bhi nhe kar pate. Hmare dimag mein bas yhe aata hai ki hum uske layak nahi hai, hamari personality usko suit nahi karti wagera wagera. Bahut se log jab kisi smart aur Handsome person ko dekhte hai to vo apne dimag par jor daal kar chup chap sochte hai ki, wo bhi unki tarah smart kaise ban sakte hai? Aaj-kal logo me bahut confusion hai, ki wo smart kaise bane, sabse pahle to aap ye soche ki aap smart hone ka kya matlab samjhte hai, or kya smart banne ke liye aap sab jaruri cheez seekh sakte hai.

ATTITUDE WALI LADKI PATANE KE TIPS 

Kuch log to is baat par bahas karte hai ki, log smart by birth hote hai unka wo intelligence level ya smartness baad mein kabhi change nahi ho sakti. Jabki aisa sab kehna galat hai kyunki personality age ke sath badhti hai. Jaise jaise aapko trends ki samjh aane legti hai aap implement karte ho waise waise ap smart bante rehte ho. Kya aap bhi is topic par confuse hai ki smart banne kaise? To bas karna kuch nahi aur niche diye steps ko padh ke implement karna hai.

▼ Educating Yourself

Education level aapke status, aapke living style ko bahut tarah se define karti hai. Hamesha apne dimag me rakhe ki education koi bekar cheez nahi jisse aapko school ya college me karne ko force kiya jaye, aapko khud apni aas pass ki duniya ki samajh honi chaiye. Or aap apne khud ke experiences se bhi sikh sakte hai, isse kayi baar unschooling bhi kaha jata hai. Aap kyi kisam ki books bhi padh sakte hai, or aapki jankari ke liye bata du ki duniya ke smartest log roj padhte hai. Aap isse hamesha enjoy nahi kar payenge, par isse aapke dimag ko bahut type ke new ideas or experience milte hai. Aapka way of speaking, talking and behaving aapki smartness ko define karta hai. Iske liye aap kuch tips padh sakte ho, vocabulary ke liye newspaper, etc.

▼ Expanding Your Horizons

Aapko new languages seekhni chahiye, isse aap new logo ke sath connect ho sakte hai or new ideas ke sath bhi. Aur jab aap naye logo se miloge, naye cheezo seekhoge, naye trends, style, etc, isse implement karne se aap mein bahut change aayega. Bas aapko thoda patience se kaam lena hai or positive rehna hoga. Iske ilawa aapko new jagah par jana chahiye, jitna aapse ho sake or aap new countries me bhi jaane ka try kar sakte hai. Isse aapko universe ke bare me pata chalega, or ye aapko open minded, smart or interesting bana dega. Kabhi bhi wo ek cheez hi mat kijiye jo aapko aati hai, aapko use alawa bhi bahut kuch try karna chahiye. Naye cheezo ko explore akrne se aapke mind ki bhi growth hoti hai aur personality bhi develop hoti hai.

▼ Developing Good Habits

Naye cheeze seekhna good habits hai. Naye cheeze means agar aap kahin naye jagah pe ja rahe ho aur waha kuch aisa hai jisme baare mein aapko nahi pata toh aapko in sab ke baare mein puchte rehna chahiye. Isse aapka skill set badhta hai aur aapka mind smart hota hai. But iske liye aapko pata hona chahiye ki aap kise puchna chahte ho, koi aisa friend jo aapko demoralize na kare. Aapko khud ke liye har hafte goals set karne chaiye. Aapko apna time education ko dena chaiye, khud ko padhane ke liye or agar aapko smart banna to aapko isme thodi mehnat to karni padegi. Aisa nahi hai ki aap ye sab kuch ek hi din ya raat me sikh jayenge, magar aap aapna jitna time isse denge utna hi fayeda ye aapko degi.

▼ Exercising Your Brain

Aapko puzzles par kaam karna chahiye jaise ki rubik’s cube ya sudoku, in puzzles ko solve karne se aapka brain working me rakhta hai or aapki mental capabilities badhti hai. Aapka dimag ek muscle hai, or aapko iske liye exercise karni hogi. Aap drawing ya painting bhi kar sakte ho or apna jyada tar time apni khud ki problem solves karte huye spend karna chahiye. Ya aap kahani ya poetry bhi likh sakte ho, kyunki creative writing aapke dimag ko force karega ki wo new situations or dailouge banaye. Ye aapki sochne ki shakti ko badhayega.  

[[[LADKI PATANE JA RAHE HAI TO YE BAATE HAMESHA YAAD RAKHE]]]

Hamesha logo se acha behave kare, isse unhe aap me maturity, class or intelligence ke gun aayenge. Fir chahe aap khi par na bhi ho or aapke baare me baat hogi to sab acha hi bolenge. Hamesha yaad rakhe ki aap sabse jyada dusre logo se hi sikhte hai. Aap apne friends se ya apne janne waalo se ussi bare me baat karein jis bare me unhe pata nahi hai or sath me dhyan bhi rakhein ki kabhi is baat ka show off na kare. Smart(genius) wohi hota hai jo badi badi baaton ko ek simple tarike se logo ko samjha de.

To friends, ye the Smart Kaise Banne ke kuch lajawab tips. Umeed hai aapko jarur pasand aaye honge. Agar ab bhi aapko apni smartness me kuch kami lagti hai to aap comment karke humse koi bhi problem share kar sakte hai, Hume aapki problem solve karne me khushi hogi. Smart kaise bane Kuch puchne ke liye aap niche diye gaye comment box me apna question likh kar humse puch sakte hai.. 

BY LOVEGURU SHAAN HASHMI

Ladki ke Baar Baar Dekhne par Kya Karna Chaiye

Kya aapke sath bhi kabhi aisa hua hai ki koi ladki jab bhi aapke samne aati ho to wo aapse najre milati ho, ya phir wo aapko kabhi kabhi chup chup ke notice karti hai, to aap is soch me padh jate hai ki uske taraf se ye koi ishara to nahi ? Toh aap sahi hai, ye uski taraf se aapke liye ishara hi hai ki wo aapse baat karna chahte hai. Wo chahte hai ki aap use jake bulao kyunki koi bhi ladki kabhi kisi ko khud I love you ya main aapki girlfriend bana chahti hu, wo ye sab khud nahi bolti bs ishare karti hai kabhi ankhon se ya kabhi aapke baar baar samne aa ke bs baki aapko khud hi himmat dikhani hoti hai. Uska aapko baar baar notice karwana or aapke samne aate rehna sirf apka dhyan apni taraf karwane ke liye hota hai. Usse khud hi baat karni hoti hai or janna hota hai ki uske dil me kya hai, kyunki agar aap yeh nahi karte toh sari baatein wesse hi reh jati hai or koi bhi ladka jo himmat dikha paya wo use hasil kar leta hai, to ab koi ladki aapse baar baar najre milati hai toh niche diye kuch steps ko follow karein or jane ki uske dil me kya hai.

LADKI KO SEX KE LIYE KESE RAZI KARE  

Ladki ke Baar Baar Dekhne par Kya Karna Chaiye

Ab dekhte hai ki vo konse pahlu hai jin par thodi mehnat karke aap khud pata laga sakte hai ki woladki aapko baar baar kyu dekhti hai. Bs ab sab janne ke liye zaroorat hai toh in points ko padne ki, jo aapko sab kuch ache se clear kar denge aur bata denge, ladki ladki ke baar dekhne pe kya ishara hai aapke liye.

Confused About Hints

Jyada-tar mens samaj hi nahi pate ki ye ek hint hai hamare liye or wo sochte hai ki ladki hume normally dekh rahi hai par aisa nahi hota, hamesha dhyan mein rakhein ki ladki aapke pass kabhi khud chal kr nahi aayegi aapko hi jana padega, so agar aapko lagta hai ladki aapko dekh rhi hai to jyada socho mat aur jaa kar baat karo. Aur waise bhi friends ladki kisi ko aise hi baar baar nahi dekhti kuch na kuch reason toh hoga, toh bas is ishare ko aise jane mat do, aur jaake use baat karo. Aur since wo khud aapse baat karna chahte hai toh aap tension mat lo wo aapko kuch galat reaction nahi degi.

Self Confidence

Jis din aap plan karlo ki aap unse baat karne wale hai aaj toh us din kuch baaton ka dhyan rakhna, jaise ki self confidence, saaf suthre rehna, ache kapde phenna or hairstyle acha ho or jisse ki wo aapko nazdik se dekh kar koi kamiyan na nikal paaye. Apni taraf se uske liye pura perfect ban ke jana. Aur haan kuch jyada change mat hoke jana kyunki aap use aise hi pasand ho jaise aap ho tabhi wo aapko itna notice karti hai.

LADKI SE PHONE NUMBER MANGNE KA TARIKA

Impression

Fir aap unse jo bhi baat karne wale hai, use ek baar apne man me soch le kyunki ladkiyon se baat karte time bahut logo ki bolti band ho jati hai or isse aapka impression un par galat pad sakta hai. Fir agar ladki ne Haan bhi karni ho tab bhi vo us waqt naa kar degi. Toh isliye jo bhi baat kare confidence se karna kyunki aap kuch galat nahi kar rahe ho, isse aapka impression positive rahega uspe.

Think Positive About Herself

Kabhi bhi us ladki ke samne dusri ladkiyon ki baat mat karein, kyunki use ye bilkul acha nahi lagega or bhi jab aap usse pehli baar baat kar rahe ho or wo aapko wahi bye bye kar degi. Bas aapko ye baatein dhyan me rakhni hai, kyunki ladkiyan kabhi bhi aapko yeh nahi bolegi ki unko ye acha nahi laga bs wo sari baatein apne mun me rakhti hai or aapke bareh me galat galat sochne lag jayegi or aapko is bare me kuch nahi batayegi or aapko kabhi pata hi nahi chalega ki usne aapko ignore karna kyu or kab shuru kar diya. Ladkiyan battein man me rakh ke bas ignorance or gusse se apni narazgi dikhati hai.

Make Her Friend First

Jab aap usse baat karenge to kabhi bhi sidha use girlfriend banne ko ya kiss, sex ke liye mat bole kyunki isse bhi aapka impression kharab ho sakta hai, agar wo aapko khud bole to baat alag hai, magar aap ye baat usse na hi karein to aapke liye thik hoga kyunki wo ladki hai or use koi bhi baat kabhi bhi buri lag sakti hai aapko har baat shuruwat se karni hogi, jaise shuruwat me use apna friend bnaye fir ageh ke bare me soche. Bas apna first impression decent ladko wala rakhna aur desperate toh bilkul bhi nahi.

Self  Value

Jaise wo aap me interested hai waise hi aap bhi usme interested ho magar jab tak wo aapse kuch puche na tab tak aap usko apne bare me kuch mat bataye yha tak ki apna naam bhi use na btaye kyunki jo cheez logo ko asani se mil jati hai log uski kadar karna nahi jante. Bas apna attitude down to earth rakhein kahin use ye bhi na lage ki aap bas usi ki wajah se baat kar rahe hai warna aapka koi interest nahi hai, nahi toh tabhi bye bye ho jayegi.

Make Her Feel Special

Agar wo aapse milna chahti hai ya aapse baat karna chahti hai, to kabhi bhi use intezzar na karwaye balki usse ja kar mile or uski baat ko sune or jawab de. Use special feel karwaye or uske bare me har baat notice kare ki wo bolti kaise hai, hasti kaise hai fir usme jo aapko acha lagta hai us bare me uski sachi tarif kare isse use acha mehsus hoga. Use notice karneke sath sath uske baaton pe bhi dhyan de aur actively uske sath conversation mein part lena aapka impressio good banayega.

To friends, ye vo tips hai jo sahi dhang se implement kiye jaaye to hamesha kaam karte hai. Aur ye sab batate hai aapko agar ladki ladki baar dekhti hait toh iska kya matlab hai. So bas ab aap ek baar fir se sab tips ko padh lo, taki kisi bhi tarah ki koi confusion na reh jaaye aur fir ho jaao shuru… Best of Luck . Kuch aur help chahiye ho toh batana zaroor. Uske liye toh aapko pata hi hai kya karna..hmm. sahi kaha..comment box mein apne views drop karo aur mere se baat karo.

BY LOVEGURU SHAAN HASHMI

Anjan Ladki Se Baat Karne Ke Tarike

Hello friends, Aapki Friend Shivshi ka Aapko pyar bhara dil se Namaskar Friends, Aaj kal ke youngsters jab bhi kisi khubsurat anjaan ladki ko dekhte hai to wo kehte hai – “Yeh ladki to bahut hi hot hai” ya `Mast` ya `Sexy` word ka use karte hai. Vo kehte hai ki is Ladki Figure kitna mast hai. Aapne ladko ko ye Kahte aksar suna hoga ki – “Ek baar iska number mil jaaye to Jannat jaha ho jaaye” and you all understand what I am saying. Par doston, Bhut se humare friends aise hai jinke man me kisi ladki se baat karne ki tammana jamane se hai par vo samjh hi nhi paate ki us ladki se vo aakhir baat kya kare. Baat Shuruwaat ki kaise Kare. To aaj hum un pyare aur sharmile friends ki problem solve karne ki thaan chuke hai. Khush ho jayiye dost kyuki Main yani ki aapki pyari friend Shivshi aapko bta rhi hu ki jab aapke pyare se dil me kisi pyari si ladki se baat karne ke arman jaage to aapko kya karna chahiye.

Anjan Ladki Se Baat Karne Ke Tarike

Dekho friend, kisi se bhi baat karni koi bhut bada kaam nhi hai, ye bhut hi simple process hai aur isme ghabrane wali koi baat nhi hai. Kya problem hai ? Ki baat shuru kaise kare ? Dekho, Jab bhi hume kisi anjaan ladki se baat shuru karni hoti hai to hum sabse Hi / Hello ka sahara lete hai. Uski tareef karte hai. Thoda bahut flirt aur Halki fulki batcheet ke baad uska naam puchte hai aur ek normal si introduction share karte hai. Fir handshake karke usse friendship badhate hai. These all things are done normally jab hum kisi anjaan ladki se baat shuru karte hai. Chahe wo offices me ho ya kahi aur like Schools, Tuition Classes, Metro Station, Bus Stops etc ye tareeka har jagah kaam karta hai.

Is tarike se hum usse baat karna shuru karte hai, jo sabse muskil kaam hota hai. Fir uske baare me detail pata karte hai. Jase ki Vo kaha rahti hai, aur aaj kal kya chal raha hai, study kya karti hai aur kha karti hai agr study nhi karti to kya karti hai. Job karti hai to kha karti hai, uska kaam kya hai. Office ya college kaise aana jana hota hai and all that. Agar ladki PG ya Hostel me rehti hai to uske baare me poochte hai, aap kay parents kya karte hai is tarike se baat shuru karte hai aur achi bonding create karte hai.

Jab us ladki se baate hone lagti hai tab fir hum usse jokes share karte hai, hansi Majak karte hai and uska number mangte hai ya usse Fb id per request bhejte hai or kehte hai ki – “Request bheji hai, accept kar lena. Nahi to when I’ll become a celebrity one day then you will remember me so before it happens Accept my friend request and give me your number for the future. Iske saath hi apne baare me batate hai.

Personality acchi rakhte hai. Ache kapde pehante hai Aur acha hair style rekhte hai and uski taareef karte hai. Agar aapke dimag me ye sawal aa rha hai ki uski tareef kaise kare to vo bhi bata dete hai. Tareef karna koi muskil kaam nhi balki tareef to vo vardan hai jo ladki ko jitna de do utna kam, par han shi tarike se. tareef karne ke liye kuch sochne ki jrurat nhi. Keh do ki aapke upar ye dress bahut hi hot lag rahi hai ya aaj to aap chamak rahe ho or uski smile par kisi purane shayar ka koi gazal chipka dete hai. Smile sabki achi hoti hai isliye iski tareef aap kabhi bhi kar sakte hai iske liye aapko maukha dekhne ki jrurat nhi. Bas itna kuch ho gya fir Anjan ladki anjan nhi rehti, Friend ban jaati hai aur kismat achi ho to Girl Friend bhi ban jaati hai.

To doston ye the tarike kisi bhi anjaan ladki se baat shuru karne ke liye. Yakeen maniye ye tips hamesha kaam karte hai. Bas aajmate time aap confidence bana ke rakhna aur ghabrana mat. Agr koi sawal, suggestion ya complaint ho to niche diye huye comment box me likh kar hum tak pahuchaye. Hum yha hai hi aapki help karne ke liye. Pyar ki Sachi Khaniya padhe aur Health Tips bhi padhe kyunki doston Aashiqui ke saath saath healthy aur fit rehna bhi jruri hai.

larki ko sex ke liye kaise razi kya jae

Ager larki se sex kerna ho aur os ko razi kerna ho to sub se pehly to ap k behaviour se osy pata chalna chahiye k ap os mein interested ho . Phr dekho k os k responce positve hai ya negtive . Ager to positve hai to baton baton mein os k sex jazbat ko obharo aur kbi os k lips ya kbi boobs ya kbi face ki tareef kerty raho aur phr os ko ahsta ahsta touch kerna shuroo ho jao aur moka dekh ker kiss b ker do mera ni khial k wo sex k liye razi na ho . Ye process 1 se 2 month ka hai . Try kero aur result batana . 
Aur 2nd thing k ager os ka responce negtive ho to ap kisi aisy moka ki talash mein raho k ap os k tanha dekh ker os k kiss ya hug ker sako . 90 % larkian darti hai aur ghr walon ko ni batati . Pehli dafa k baad he ap ko pata chal jaye ga k wo kaisi hai lakin is mein thora bohat risk hai .

Ladki Se Phone Par Kya Baat Kare

Kya aap kabhi kabhi khud bhi confuse ho jate ho jab aap khud apni girlfriend ko phone karte ho, or aapke pass kuch hota hi nahi baat karne ko? Ya kabhi aisa lagta ho jaise ki aap kisi mansik dabav se gujar rahe ho, or jab ki aap us ladki ko sach me chahte ho. Agar aisa kuch hai phir bhi aap use baat kyu nahi kar pate. Iska reason yeh bhi hai ki aapko pata hi nahi chalta usse kya baat karein aur doosre cheez aapko thoda sa ye bhi dar hota use kisi baat ka bura na lage. Aur waise bhi ho sakta hai aap kab se use baat kar rahe hai aur ab toh baatein bhi khatam hogi hai, toh bas phir chalo dekhte hai apni girlfriend ke sath kabhi na khatam hone wali baatein kaise aur kya karein. Toh ab aaj apki ek doubt toh khatam ho hi jayega, Ladki Se Phone Pe Kya Baat Kare?

Ghabraye nahi ladkiya bhi insaan hi hoti hai, or wo bhi right attitude ke sath, ab aap bhi unse phone par baat karte hue acha time nikal sakte hai. Fir chahe aap apne secret crush se baat kar rahe ho ya apni kissi dost se. Bs aapko janna hai ki ladki se phone par kya baat kare? Ye bhi ek skill hai jise agar aap seekh jate hai to wo aapke pure life-time me kaam aa sakta hai, bs aapko niche diye steps ko follow karna hai.

Sabse important baat unse baat karne ka right attitude rakho aur phir jane ki baat kya karni hai aur kaise karni hai. Aur waise bhi ladki se baat karne ki tension mat hi lo woh khud hi itna bolti hai ki aapko jyada sochna hi nahi padega. Aap bas unhe sunte rehna sab sahi hoga aur kabhi bhi argue mat karna. Agar aapki girlfriend shant nature ki hai aur kam bolti hai toh iska solution toh hum aapko bata hi rahe hai ki usse kya baat karni hai. Toh chalo bade ab apni tips ki aur.   

To chaliye aaj hum pata lgate hai wo konsi baatein or cheeze hai jinhe dhyaan me rakhne se aapki ye problem solve ho jayegi. Bas aapko sirf itna karna hai ki niche diye gaye steps ko bade hi dhyaan padhe or har baat ko step wise follow kare.

Aapke Pass Reason Hona Chaiye Call Karne ka

Agar aapke pass reason hoga to aapke pass baat karne liye sab kuch hoga, or aap kabhi bhi confused feel nahi karoge. Jaise humara dil kabhi bhi kisi ko bhi phone karne ko kar jata hai. Lekin agar hum uske phone recieve karne se pahle usko phone karne ka reason soch lenge to isse hume koi nuksaan to nahi hoga, balki hum apni baat saaf saaf aksaro me bol payenge. Or humhe jyada sochna nahi padega kya baat karo? Khass kar tab jab aap ek ladki se phone par baat kar rahe ho to aapke bolne me ek sense honi chaiye, nahi to ladki bhi aapka phone uthane me 100 times sochegi. Kabhi bhi jhuta reason mat de phone karne ka jisse aapko lage ki aap uske samne khud ko cool feel karwa rahe hai. Agar aap use jyada regularly phone karte hai aur baat karne ka koi na toh reason hai aur na hi topic toh bhi ladki aapka phone uthane mein bahut baar sochegi. Isliye jab tak wo aapki achi friend nahi banti toh use apni regular calls se irritate na karo. 

Aap pahle se hi Soch le Ki Aapne kya baat karni hai

Jyadatar phone me hone wali conversation wesi nahi jati jaise ki humne sochi hoti hai. Or wo kabhi khud thik nahi hogi, for example; aap ek lambi si list likh sakte hai apne questions ki jo aap unse puchna chahte hai. Agar aap aisa karte hai to jo baatein hume phone par baat karte time tang karti hai aapki wo problem khatam ho jayegi. Bs aapko dhyaan me rakhna hai ki jo general cheeze hai aap pahle unhe hi discuss kare. Magar apni iss question ki listthoda genuine rakhein toh acha hoga kahin ise interview ki tarah na leke jana. Iss sab se aap dono bore ho jaoge aur jitna ho sake apne conversation ko humorous rakhna. Is se aap dono ka conversation mein interest bhi bana rahega aur uska bhi aapse baat karne ka man kar raha hoga.

Bina Hesitation Ke Call Kare

Ab agar aapke paas baat karne ka reason bhi hai aur ye bhi pata hai aapko kya baat kis tarah se karni hai toh phir itna sochna hi kyu. Jitna jyada aap sochoge usko call karne ka, utna hi aap late karoge aur utna hi aapki call ko wrong way mein lia jaa sakta hai. Toh itna sochne ki jagah phone uthao aur bas use call karo aur haan yaad rakhna call karte waqt apna confidence bana ke rakhna taki use kuch galat intitution na aaye aapki call se. toh bas phir apna game plan ready karo aur use call karo. Agar aap use jyada achi tarah se nahi jante toh bhi aap daily routine ke bare mein baat karke us conversation ko bada sakte ho. Toh ab soch kya rahe ho, uthao phone aur karo use call aur apni baaton ki list ko implement karo.

Sidha Baat par Aaye or Shant Rahe

Aapko ladki se phone par baat shuru karte time, kabhi bhi kisi choti si baat ko karne me bhi jyada time nahi lena chaiye. Aisa purane time ke log karte hai, or aisa karna aapko ulta bhi padh sakta hai. Isse aap use bhi confuse kar denge ki aapne use actually call kiya kyun tha. Apni love talk ke pura hone ke baad, sidha apne kaam par aye ki aapne use col kyun kiya hai. Kuch ladkiyo ko phone par baat karte time ladko ka nervous hona ya flustered(ghabaraya hue) hona cute lagta hai. Lekin aap aisa har baar nahi kar sakte. Kyunki baki ladkiya, jo ki phone me logo ko unke emotions ke sath judge nahi karti, to usko lagega ki aap usko frustrated kar rahe hai, ya uska time waste kar rahe ho. Isliye hamesha aaram se or shant re kar baat kare.

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Conversation two sided honi chahiye. Ye nahi ki hamesha aap bollte hi raho aur naa hi ye ki hamesha sunte hi raha karo, jise use lage ki aap uski baaton mein bilkul interested nahi ho. Toh conversation mein equally part lena bahut zaroori hai. Kuch aap bolo, kuch uski suno. Kuch discuss kar rahe ho toh mutual result pe aao. Itne mein hi aapko baat karne ke liye bahut kuch mil jata hai. Kabhi bhi puri baat-chit me non-stop na bole. Jab wo bolti hai to bade hi dhyaan se sune or kabhi bhi bich me na bole. Or agar wo boli hi ja rahi bade time se to aap use aise show kare jaise ki aap bade dhyan se sun rahe hai or aap han han? Ya hmm hmm bhi kar sakte hai. Or use bolne de. Aur agar wo kuch puch rahe hai toh usko sahi se us baat ka solution bhi batao, uspe hmm hmm ya pata nahi ka reply dene se aapka negative impression padh sakta hai. Use lag sakta hai ki aap use baat karne mein bilkul interested nahi ho.

Call Ka End Bade hi Pyaar se Kare

Agar aapki sari baatein khatam ho gayi hai, to aapko kuch khene ki jarurat nahi hai. Aap call katne ke liye pure satisfied hai. Jab aapko aisa lagta hai ki ise jari rakhne ka koi matlab nahi hai, to aap simply kuch aisa bol sakte ho jaise ki well, I should probably go now(ki thik hai, ab mujhe chalna chaiye) mujhe kuch kaam hai. Aapse baat karke acha laga, use respond karne ka mooka de, apni taraf se goodbye bole, fir intezaar kare.

To friends, ye the Ladki Se Phone Par Kya Baat Kare?  ke kuch ache or shaandar tips. Aasha hai aapko ye tips jarur pasand aaye honge. Agar ab bhi aapke mun me koi bhi doubt hai to aap niche comment karke humare sath apni koi bhi problem share kar sakte hai. Hume aapki help karne me khushi hogi. Hum chahte hai har ladka in tips ko padhe aur apni life me is topic me sudhar laye, taaki humari is duniya me kisi bhi ladke ko kisi ladki se phone par baat karte time koi problem na ho. Best of luck guys.

BY LOVE GURU SHAAN HASHMI

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Ladki Se Phone Number Mangne Ka Tarika

Ladki Se Phone Number Mangne Ka Tarika

Kya aap bhi kisi anjaan ladki ka phone number lena chahte hai but dikat ye hai ki kaise le? Humare pass iska tod hai is article me bataye gaye tarike aapki madad karenge.

1. Pahle Ladki Pasand Kar Le

Agar aapko phone number chahiye to sabse pahle aapko apne liye ladki pasand karni hogi, esi ladki jise dekhkar aapke hosh ud jaye. Jise dekhar aapka usse baat karne ka mann kare. Wese to rooj aaye din ladko ki kitni ladki pasand aati hai but ladki ese chune jo aapko serious me pasand ho. Fir uske baad baari aati hai use apni aur attract karne ka, tabhi to bhai wo ladki tumhe notice karegi. Usko apni aur attract karne ke liye aapme thodi bahut quality to honi chahiye jaise ki, high personality, dressing sense, baat karne me maharat hasil ho ya kuch esi cheez jo aap kar sakte hai aur koi nahi. Kisi anjaan ladki ko apni aur attract karna thoda bahut muskil hai but namumkin nahi. Agar aapme confidence hai to aap kar sakte ho.

2. Dhyan Rakhe Ki Sidha Phone Number Na Manga Le

Jyadataar ladko ko sabar nahi hota hai aur wo sidha direct ja kar kisi bhi ladki ka phone number maang lete hai, ese me 80% chance aapke na ke ho jate hai fir uske baad kahi aur try marte hai. To agar aapke dimaag me ese hi khyaal panap rahe hai to use dimaag se nikaal le. Kisi anjaan ladki se agar aap sidha phone number maang logo to bhai agli shock to ho jayegi, koi ladki kisi ajaan ladke ko kaise phone number de sakti hai aap ye pahle batao. Wo bhi kahegi ki, “jaan na pahchaan tu mera mehmaan”. Ese me aapka impression down ho jayega uske samne aur aapka agli baar uske samane koi chance bhi nahi ban payega. Kahte hai na ki, “First Impression Is The Last Impression”. To apne dimaag me ye baat bitha lo ki dhyan se bhi kisi ladki ka number pahle na le.

3. Fir Usse Dosti Kare

Agar aapko koi ladki pasand aagyi to fir uske baad aapko usse baat karne ka mann to karega hi. To ese me aapko usse dosti kar leni chahiye kueki dosti se hi aap usse baat kar sakte ho. Agar aap uske liye anjaan ho to esi situation me aapko sabse pahle uske dosto ke sath dosti karni hogi. Hum aapko esa isliye kah rahe hai kueki ladki ke liye aap anjaan ho to wo apse kaise dosti kar sakti hai. Agar aap ek baar uske dosto ke sath ghul mil gye to ese me aap usse bhi mil sakoge aur baat bhi kar sakoge.

4. Usse Najdikiya Badhaye

Agar ek baar aapki usse dosti ho gyi to kosish kare ki aap uske jitne najdik ja sake chale jaye, ese me aap usko ache se jaan paoge aur wo aapko jaan payegi. Jaise ki uska favorite color kon sa hai, khane me kya pasand hai, kaha jana pasand hai, kis type ke gane use pasand hai etc. Ye sab aap tabhi puch sakte ho jab wo aapke sath ho. Use kahi ghumne ke liye offer kare, lunch ke liye ya movie dekhne ke liye. Agar aapke pass car hai use kahi long drive pe le jaye.

5. Fir Uske Baad Number Le

Jab aap dono me itni baat hone lage to tab ja kar aap uska phone number mang sakte ho ya kya pata wo aapko pahle apna phone number de de. Jab ek baari aapko uska phone number mil gya to tab aap use achi tarah se aur jaan sakoge. Ye hota hai ek dum step by step tarika, agar aap ye sab tarike ek ek kar ke follow karoge to defiantly aap uska phone number pa sakte ho. Dhyan de ki jaldibaji na kare aur thoda patience rakhe.

To friends aapko humara ye article kaisa laga, humne yaha pe aapko 5 tips bataye hai jis ki madad se aap kisi bhi ladki ka phone number le sakte ho. Agar aapko iske alawa kuch bhi problem ati hai humne comment box par jarur comment kare hume apki help karenge. Please is article jo jitna ho sakte utna share kare social networkings sites pe. Take care and have a nice day.

BY LOVEGURU SHAAN HASHMI

Facebook Par Ladki Patane Ke Tarike

acebook, social networkng site jisne shayad bahut sari love stories banaye hongi but bahut sare bache bigade bhe hai. Toh kya aapko bhi koi ladki pasand hai but aap use direct kuch kehne mein darte hai or aapke paas uska contact number bhi nahi hai jo aap use kuch text ya whattsapp kar sako but ek cheez jo common hai wo ye hai facebook. Toh kya aap bhi apni love story facebook ki help se start karna chahte ho. Toh aaj hum batate hai Facebook Par Ladki Patane Ke Tarike. Toh ab facebook banega aapke liye cupid. Toh bas iske liye neeche diye hue tips ko ache se adho aur implement karo toh dekho kya results milte hai.

Facebook par Ladki Patane Ke Tips

To aaj hum aapko btayenge ki ghar bhaithe hue hi aap apni mann-pasand ladki ko facebook par kaise pata sakte hai.Toh padhte hai facebook par ladki patane ke tips.

Dhyaan Rakhe Ki Aapki Photos Tarrif Karne Layak Ho

Agar aap kisi ladki se chat karna shuru karna chahte ho, wo hi jisi aap impress karna chahte ho toh sabse pehle apni photo up to date rakhna wo bhi aise photo jise dekhte hi wo impress ho jaye aur uske expression ‘WOW’ wale ho. Aur haan apni personality stud jaise dikhane ke chakkar mein kahin aap kafi sari ladkiyon ke sath photos mat dal dena jisse use lage ki aap bas ladkiyon ke sath flirt karte ho ya kuch bhi negative impression uske dimag mein aaye. Toh use smart, personalited, aur decent jaisa hi impression dalna. Aur haan ikathe hi 100 – 200 mat dal dena. KUch time baad photos dalo taki uski bhi excitement bani rahe aapke naye look ko dekhne ke liye. Kuch parties ki photos dal dena. Apni photos me jaiye, or apni picture ko dekh kar khud se sawal puche ki jis ladki ko me ptana chahta hun kya use ye photo pasand ayegi? Agar aapko lagta hai ki iska jawab nahi hai to us photo ko usi time apni facebook profile se delete karde.

Use Dekhne De Ki Aapki Ek Social Life Bhi Hai

Agar aap facebook ke jariye ek ladki ko janne or panne ki koshish kar rahe hai, to fir wo ladki bhi dekhegi ki kya aap sach me ek real guy ho? Uske baad is baat ka dhyaan rakhe ki aapke facebook par bahut se friends hone chaiye. Apni wall me interesting cheeze post kare, dikhaye ki aap events attend kar rahe hai, logo ki photos me comment kare, and log aapke links par comment kare. Ladki ko dikhaye ki aap ek majedar insaan hai or baki logo ko aapse baat karna acha lagta hai. Is sab ke through sabse important cheez jo aap dikhana chahte ho wo ye ki aap social media pe active ho.

Aapki Profile hi Use Btayegi Ki Aap me Kya Special Hai

Aapko khud apne dil ki baatein facebook par zahir nahi karni chaiye. Bas ek baar ladki se baat karke use thoda aisa impression create karo ki aap bahut intersting ho aur apne bare mein thoda suspence leave kare, taki ladki aapke barrein me jaan ne ke liye aur crazy ho aur aapki timeline visit kare aur phir aapki time aapka sara kaam kar degi. Usko aapke baare me sab batyegi. Bas ek cheez ka dhyan rakhein agar ye sab sahi raste pe jata hai aur wo aapki time line visit kar rahe hai toh use aapki wall pe kuch intersting cheeze milne chahiye ise dekh ke wo aapke bare mein janne ke liye aur interested ho

Ladki Dhundhe

Facebook profile ki madad se aap apne liye koi cute ladki dhundhe, jo fun girl ho, single ho or ya aapke ghar ke aas pass me hi rehti ho. Koshish kare ki, wo ladki aapke kisi friend ko janti ho, ya aap hi ke school me padhti ho jha aap padhte ho. Koi bhi aisi ladki na chune, jo ki aap ke liye bahut hi anjan ho. Is baat ka khass tor se dhyaan rakhe ki wo kisi ke sath relation me na ho, or agar aap uski photos dekh sakte ho, to fir aap uski photos ko dekh kar uske bare me bahut si baatein jaan sakte hai. Or yeh bhi pata laga sakte hai ki wo kis type ki ladki hai.

Use Dost Bnaye

Agar aap abhi tak us ladki ke dost nahi bane hai, to ab aapko use puchna hoga ki wo aapko as a friend accept karle. Yaad rakhe ki koi bhi anjan ladki aapko itni jaldi apna dost nahi manegi, na hi aapki friend request accept karegi. Or shayad wo aapko bahar fek de matlab ki unfriend karde ya aapko block karde. Agar aap use casually tarrike se milte ho, to shayad wo raji ho jaye aapki friend request ko accept karne ke liye. Iske baad agar aap kisi ladki se kabhi kisi jgah par kuch derr ke liye hi mile ho, or aap sure nahi hai ki us ladki ko aap yaad bhi ho ya nahi. To aap use friend request ke sath ek message bhi bhej sate hai, use yaad dilane ke liye ki aap kon hai or aap use kha mile the. Or message karte time jyada josh me na aa jaye. Bas aaram se kuch aisa likhe message me ki Hi i’m sandeep, main last week aapko rahul ki party me mila tha. Mujhe wha aap se baat karke bahut acha laga or maza bhi aya. Uske baad wo aapki friend request jarur accept karegi.

Uske Facebook Page Ki Janch Kare

Ek baar aap us ladki se facebook par friend ban jate ho, to aap uske faceboook page par kabhi bhi ja sakte ho. Or wha par ja kar wha par di gayi sari information ke bare me pata laga sakte ho or uske bare me bahut si baatein jaan sakte hai. Isse aapko ye bhi pata chal jayega ki wo ladki facebook kitni derr chalati hai. Jitna jyada aap uske bare me jaanoge utna hi jaldi aap use pane ke karib hote jaoge. Usse baat karne ka sabse aasan tarrika hai, ki aap use uske interests me cheer kare, uska confidence badaye. Dekhe agar aap dono ke koi mutual friends hai to us friend ko talash kare or milne ke baad usse puche ki wo kiske sath ghumti hai ya wo kaise type ki hai ya use kya pasand hai or kya na pasand or ye sab kuch aap apne dono ke mutual friend se hi jaan sakte hai. Uski hobbies ko jaane, uske facepook profike me jaye uski posts, pictures, or group se pata lgaye ki usko kya karna or kha jan pasand hai.

Usse Connection Bnana Shuru karde

Kabhi bhi use aise messages na bheje, jisme aap ne unhe likha ho ki aap bahut hot ho, ladkiyon ko aise coments kabhi pasand nahi aate specially jab aap uske ache friend nahi ho or use kabhi aapki friends accept karne ke liye message mein request na karna. Lekin unko aapki friend request accept karne ke baad aapko thoda or time spend karna chaiye, jisse ki aapki facebook friendship or bhi achi tarah develop ho jayegi. Bas is baat ka dhyaan rakhe ki aap hamesha unke statuses or photos like kare, fir chahe wo lajawab ho chahe na ho. Bas aapko ye sab unki najaro me ane ke liye karna hai, taki wo aapko notice karti rahe. Thode tie tak aise hi karte rehne se, Fir aap unke statuses or photos par comments bhi kar sakte hai. Bas pakka karle ki wo bhi aap se communicate(sampark) kare or aapke dwara kiye gaye comments ko bhi like kare. Is baat ka khasstor se dhyaan rakhe ki ye sari baat-chit kabhi bhi ek tarfa na ho.

Usko Message Bheje Or Usse Facebook Par Chat Kare

Jab bhi aapko lage ki wo ladki aapki feelings ko samajne lag gayi hai. Ya aapki posts ya comments relationship me bahut shudhar aa gaya hai, to aap ise next level par le ja sakte hai. Use facebook par message bhejna shuru kare. Shuruwat me bas unhe kuch hi lines send kijiye, kisi bhi cheez ke bare me jo aapko unke bare me yaad dilati ho. Ya aap use normal hi, ka message bhi drop kar sakte ho.Unhe message karne ke baad agar unki taraf se ek baar bhi reply ata hai, to aap unse facebook chat karna start kar sakte ho, thodi or normal baat-chit karne ke liye.

Usse Uska Number Le Or Use milne ke Liye Bole

Aap unko message karke bol sakte ho, ki aapko unse baat karna bahut acha lagta hai, lekin ab aap unse phone par baat-chit karna chahte ho. Lekin shayad unhe ye sunne me ajib lage or unhe aisa mehsus ho ki ab aap is riste ko or majbut karna chahte ho. Ek baat or bhi hai, ki ye ek perfect rasta hai ki wo aapke sath kahi bahar jane se pahle aapko or bhi achi tarah se jaan le. Fir use milne ke liye puche. Shayad sahi time ane par aapko us ladki se ek insaan hone ke nate milna chaiye, nahi to facebook par ladkiyo ke sath ki gayi flirting se ladkiya ye sochti hai ki ladke ye sab kuch sirf maze karne ke liye karte hai. To agar aapka unse messaging or chatting me ek acha relation ban gaya hai, to unse kuch aise bole ki mujhe aap se facebook par baat karna bahut acha lagta hai, lekin ab meri icha hai ki hum amne samne ho kar baat-chit kare. Kya aap mujhse kisi time milna chahogi? Uske baad ise casual hi rakhe. Unse candle-lit reastaurant ke liye na puche. Sirf drink ya coffee ke liye puche. Agar wo aapko facebook ke bina bilkul bhi nahi janti, or aap dono ke mutual friends bhi jyada nahi hai, to wo ladki aapko kahi bahar milne wali baat ko bahut serious legi. Isliye unhe kisi public place me hi bulaye milne ko jha unhe kisi bhi trah ka darr mehsus na ho, for jitna ho sake utna chill kare. Ya pahle aap unko apna number de de fir unke dene ka intezaar kare. Uske baad agar wo aap se milne ko tyaar hai, kahi public place me to fir enjoy kare or fir ek new relation ki shuruwat kare facebook ke bahar or maze kare.

To friends ye the kuch shaandar tips ki Facebook Par Ladki Kaise Pataye. Bas aap in tips ko ache se padh kar follow kare, jisse ki aapki ye problem solve ho jaye. Agar fir bhi aapke mann me koi bhi isse related sawal hai ya aapki problem kuch hor hai to aap niche comment karke, humse apni koi bhi problem share kar sakte hai. Hume bhi aapki help karne me bahut khushi hogi. So friends ab derr kis baat ki hai in tips ko ache padh kar implement kare, or ho jao shuru. Best Of Luck.

BY LOVE GURU SHAAN HASHMI

Attitude Wali Ladki Ko Patane Ke Tarike

Kya aap ko bhi koi ladki pasand hai, jise aap ptana chahte ho lekin uske attitude ko dekh kar aap ghabra jate ho? Ye sochne lag jate ho ki agar main use baat karta hu toh kahi wo reject na karde ya kahi aapki insult na ho jaye. To ab yeh attitude wali ladki ke bare main soch kar ghabrane ki koi jarurat nahi hai, kyunki woh bhi aapki or meri tarah normal insaan hi hoti hai. Or waise bhi aaj ke time me ladko ko attractive or attitude wali ladkiyan hi pasand aati hai. Ya yu kahin jinhe pane ki koshish sirf aap hi nahi kar rahe but aapke or bhi kafi friends uski taraf attracted hai but usswe baat karni ki himmat kisi mein bhi nahi hai ya phir itna confidence bhi nahi hai aap mein ki use jake baat karo.

Bas apne friends ke sath school ya college me bhaith kar ek dusre ko bolte hi reh jate hai ki wo meri hai or uske sath wali teri hai. Or apni Isi soch ke karan hum hamesha piche reh jate hai or itne me koi or ladka jo ki thodi himmat dikha pata hai or aapse kam good looking hai wo us ladki ko pata kar le jata hai. Or hum or aap bas bhaithe hi reh jate hai, lekin ab hume apne andar yehi badlav lane honge, khud par himmat ke sath sath bharosa bhi rakhna sikhna hoga. Kyunki kahi bhaith kar pachtane se acha to aap us ladki se baat kare. Fir chahe wo aapko reject hi kyun na karde, lekin uski rejection ko face karke hi aapke dimag me jo darrr hai wo khatam ho jayega. Aur isse atleast aap me himmat toh aayegi. Agli baar itna daroge toh nahi. Or kya pata wo ladki aapko pahle se hi like karti ho, or wo bas aapka wait kar rahi ho ki kab aap usse aa kar baat karoge or kab wo aapko han bolegi.

Wese to ladkiyan bahut si type ki hoti hai. Jaise ki simple nature ki, arrogant nature ki, ya friendly nature ki. Lekin humare dil ko wohi bhati hai, jisko sabhi pasand karte hai ya aap ise is tarah se bhi dekh sakte hai ki jisse dekh kar sabke muh khulle hi reh jaye or us ladki ko dekh kar sabhi ladke yehi soche ki aisi girlfriend honi chahiye yaar. Wo khawat to aap ne suni hi hogi ki Jab tak kaam ko karne mein mushkil na ho tab tak maja hi nahi aata us kaam ko karne ka aur na us cheez ki milne ka. Toh bas ab attitude wali ladki ke liye bhi aisa hi kuch hai, kaam mushkil hai lekin maza bhi utna hi hai. To chaliye ab shuru karte hai janna, or uske liye aapko bas niche diye gaye steps ko ache se padh kar unhe follow karna hoga, jisse ki aapko pata chal jayega, ki kisi attitude wali ladki ko kaise pataya jaye 

Uske Friends se Jaan Pehchan Banaye

Jab aap uske friends ke sath apni jaan-pehchan banate ho, to usi time aapki aadhi problem to khud ba khud solve ho jayegi. Jaise ki aapne suna hi hoga ki koi bhi mushkil kaam achanak se bahut aasan ho jata hai, agar hume us kaam ko karne me kuch ache doston ka sath mil jata hai. Or tab wo kaam, kaam nahi rehta balki khel ban jata hai. To ab aap btaiye, ki kya aapko bhi koi beautiful ladki pasand aa gayi hai? Jise dekh kar aapko dil se lagta hai ki yehi wo ladki hai jise aap ptana chahte ho ya use apna bnana chahte ho. Bas dar hai toh uske attitude ka aur usse jyada rejection ka. Chalo ye bhi genuine hai, but hum btayenge bina rejection use kaise pataye.

Agar aap such me use ptana chahte ho, to sabse pahle aapko uske sabi karibi doston se jaan-pehchan bnani hogi. Jisse ki jab bhi aap uske doston ke ache dost ban jaoge to fir wohi log aapki is mamle me help jarur karenge or isse aapka 50% kaam to tabhi pura ho jayega. Fir uske baad apne kisi common friend ko bole ki wo us ladki se aapka introduce karwaye. Fir jab bhi aap us ladki se milne jao to sab kuch aaram se kare, jaise ki usse aaram se mile, kisi bhi tarah ki jald bazi na kare. Jisse ki aapka kaam bigad jaye ya jisse ki aapka first impression hi us par kharab padhe, kyunki aap ne kahi par suna to hoga hi ki first impression is a last impression or uske baad us ladki ko apni pahli meeting(mulakat) me apne aim(irade) ke baare me na btaye. Bas use apna dost bnane ki koshish kare, taki use aapke bare me sochne ka time mil sake. Bas apna first impression decent aur standardized rakhein.

Use Compliment De

Hamesha is baat ko yaad rakhe ki har ladki ko apni khoobsurati ki tareef sunna bahut pasand hota hai, or ye baat specially(khastoor par) attitude wali ladkiyon par laghu hoti hai. Kyunki unhe to apni har cheez ki tarrif sunna bahut pasand hota hai or isi baat ko dhyaan me rakhte hue aapko bhi bas unki sachi tarrif hi karni hogi. Aur aap unke nature pe compliment karte ho toh wo aur bhi impress hogi kyunki usne shayad ab tak bas apne attitude ko leke negative comments hi sune ho sakte hai.

Uske baad jab bhi aapko usse baat karne ka mauka mile to bas in cheezo ka dhyan rakhna. Jisse ki use awkward(ajib) mehsus na ho. Or aap uski in cheezo par tarrif kar sakte ho. Jaise ki uski smile, dressing sense, uske baat karne ka tarrika or bhi bahut sari cheeze hai jin par aap uski tarrif kar sakte ho or wo bhi uske samne hi. Jisse ki wo aapse bahut jyada or jaldi impress hone ke chances hai or fir aap se milne ke baad jab bhi wo aapke bare me sochegi to wo acha hi sochegi. Or kya pata ini sab baaton ki vjah se wo aapko pasand karna bhi shuru karde. Bas hamesha yaad rakha ki har cheez ko limit se kare. Taki jaisa aap chaho wessa hi ho or us ladki ko pata bhi na chale ki jo bhi ho rha hai wo sab kuch aap chahte ho, bas aapko hamesha us ladki ko aise show karna hoga jaise ki sab kuch uski pasand ka ho rha hai ya use dhyaan me rakh kar kiya ja rha hai. Ye aapka great start hoga.

Kabhi Bhi Paiso Ko Lekar Kanjoosi Na Kare

Dekhiye, agar aap chahte hai ki koi attractive or attitude wali ladki aapki girlfriend ho, jise sabi pasand karte ho to aapko apni pocket(jeb) ko hamesha garam hi rakhna hoga. Agar aap us ladki ke close friends wale group ke sath friends ban jate ho. To kabhi bhi kahi ghumne jane ka plan banta hai, jisme ki wo ladki bhi ghumne chal rahi hai to apni pocket ko garam rakhe. Or aisa bhi nahi hai ki aap hajaro rupaye hi le jane ka sochne lag jao, bas kum se kum aapke pass itne rupaye ho ki aapki un logo ke bich me respect bani rahe. Aur bas apni pocket mein itne paise rakhna ki aap apna or uska expenditure kar sako jab wo aapke sath akeli ho. Aisa kare ki jab bhi wo ladki kuch saman leti hai to wha aap paise katwao or ladki ko force karo ki paise to aap hi doge. Aisa karne se ladki aap par jarur lattu(fida) ho jayegi. Kyunki ladkiyon ko wo ladke bahut pasand ate hai, jo ki unhe unke paise na kharchne de kisi bhi cheez ko kharidne me. Matlab paiso ke mamle mein kanjoosi aapke liye nahi hai.

Aapki Dressing Sense Achi  Honi Chaiye

Aaj- kal ki generation ke time me chahe koi bhi ladka ya ladki ho, lekin unka dressing sense hi unki personality ko reflect karta hai. Us attitude wali ladki jisse aap ptana chahte ho agar wo modern type ki ladki hai, to usi ki tarah aapko bhi modern banna hoga. Matlab apna dressing sense uski choice ka rakhna. Jaruri nahi hai ki aap bhi usi ki trah mehnge kapde kharido, aap branded kapdo ki sale lagne tak ka intezaar kar sakte ho. Fir uske baad jab ache or branded kapdo me sale lagti hai to tab aap unhe kum price me kharrid sakte ho. Usi ke sath apna hair style bhi acha rakhe, agar aapka hair style hi acha nahi hoga to branded kapde pehanne ke baad bhi aapki personality kharab ho sakti hai. Isliye hamesha fashionable rahiye, jise english me Up-To-Dated kha jata hai. Agar aap chahe toh use bhi advise le sakte hai, ki mujhe kaise hairstyle rakhna chahiye jo mujhe suit kare. Isse aapko uski choice bhi pata chalegi aur use impress karne mein ek step aage badoge.

Hamesha Acha Behave(Bartav) Kare

Agar aap shy type ke person hai, to aapke liye ye kaam khud hi aasan ho jata hai. Kyunki ladkiyon ko shy type ladke bade hi cute lagte hai. Or agar aap dusre kisi type ke ho to aapko is par thoda kaam karna hoga. Ladkiyon ko kabhi aggressive or ignorant ladke pasand nahi aate. Hamesha yaad rakhe ki ladkiyan bahut hi jyada sensitive hoti hai. Unhe wo ladke ache nahi lagte jo ki apni khud ki galati hone par bhi ladkiyon par chillate hai ye gussa karte hai. Isiliye aap jab bhi us ladki se mile to apne face par ek pyaari si smile bnaye rakhe. Isi ke sath hi aap jab bhi us ladki se baat kar rahe ho to us ladki ke sath eye contact bhi bnaye rakhe. Eye contact bnaye rakhne se aapko self confidence milega or us ladki ke sath aapke ek alag sa rista ban jayega or ek naye bound ki bhi shuruwat hogi. Is baat ka dhyaan rakhe ki baat-chit karte time bich bich me thoda idhar-udhar bhi dekhe, jisse ki ladki ko aisa na lage ki aap use ghurr rahe ho ya use gusse se dekh rahe ho. Aap ladki ko apni intelligency se bhi impress karne ki koshish kar sakte ho. Hamesha ladki ke samne sarif bane rahe, kyunki ladkiyon ko shareef ladke hi pasand hote hai. Unhe ladna jhagadna bilkul pasand nahi hota or isliye wo is type ke ladko se durr hi rehna pasand karti hai.

Ladki Se Touch Me Rhene Ke Liye Koi Rasta Dhundhe Facebook Ya Watsapp Group Join Kare

Jaise bhi karke aapko us ladki se touch me rehne ka koi rasta dhundna hoga. Jaise ki aaj kal to social networking sites ke dwara chalayi gayi app(applications) ki madad se aap usse judd sakte ho, for example Facebook, Twitter, Google+, Instagram, or etc. Inme se koi bhi aisa app chune jo ki aap dono hi use(istemaal) karte ho, jaise ki facebook. Aap use facebook par friend request bhej sakte ho. Aur agar aap ache friends nahi hai toh apni kuch recognisition de sakte ho jaise ki hum yaha mile the, wagera wagera, jise wo apki request accept karle. Ya aap facebook ya watsapp par koi bhi group join karlo, jo ki uske friends ke dwara bnaya gaya ho or jisme wo bhi ho. Or jab bhi aap in app me kisi se baat karoge to us ladki ke baare me jarur baat kare or uski tarrif jarur kare. But haan agar use publicly itna kuch pasand na ho toh ye sab avoid karein aur uska dhyan apni taraf karne ke kuch aur tarike dhoondo. Jisse ki wo ladki aapko chah kar bhi ignore na kar paye or aapko notice karna shuru karde. Uske baad aap us ladki ko facebook par message karna shuru kar sakte hai, lekin jab tak uska reply nahi ata tab tak dusra message na bheje, nahi to wo aapko desperate samjhegi.

Isliye sab kuch aaram se or shuruwat se kare, jisse ki us ladki ka bhi aap me interest bane. Fir jab aapka usse ek level me baat-chit ka connection ban jata hai, to aap usse uske phone number ke liye puch sakte hai. Iske ilawa fir jab bhi aap us ladki se baat kare to hamesha samjhdari wali baatein hi kare. Kabhi bhi usse aise baatein na kare jo use samjh me na ati ho, ya wo aapse baat karte time bore ya irritate mehsus kare. Aisa kuch na kare tabhi aap kamiyab ho paoge.

To friends, ye the kuch lajawb or sache tips ki attitude wali ladko kaise pataye. Umeed hai ki aapko ye tips jarur samjh me aa gaye honge, lekin agar aapko fir bhi is topic me kisi bhi tarah ka koi doubt hai ya aapki koi or problem hai to aap niche diye gaye comment box par comment karke humse apni har problems and doubts share kar sakte hai. Hume aapki help karne me bahut khushi hogi. So best of luck friends.

BY LOVEGURU SHAAN HASHMI