61.5 फीसदी लोग प्यार के इजहार का तरीका नहीं जानते

नई दिल्ली।

विश्व की नंबर वन मैच मेकिंग सर्विस शादी डॉट कॉम ने आजकल के भारतीय युवाओं की मानसिकता को समझने के लिए सर्वे किया। जब भारतीय पुरुषों से पूछा गया कि क्या वे अपने पार्टनर से अपने प्यार का इजहार करने में विश्वास रखते हैं? इस पर 91.6 फीसदी लोगों का जवाब हां था, 0.9 फीसदी लोगों ने इस सवाल के जवाब में नहीं कहा, जबकि 7.5 फीसदी लोगों ने कहा, कर सकते हैं।

प्यार का इजहार करने में 61.5 फीसदी शादीशुदा पुरुषों को होती है परेशानी

जब इन युवकों से पूछा गया कि क्या वह बार-बार अपने पार्टनर के सामने प्यार का इजहार करते हैं? तो 21.3 फीसदी शादीशुदा पुरुषों ने कहा कि वह अक्सर ऐसा करते हैं। करीब 33.4 फीसदी लोगों ने कहा कि वे विशेष मौकों पर ऐसा करते हैं। इस सवाल पर 45.3 फीसदी लोगों का जवाब था कि उन्होंने कब ऐसा किया, इस बारे में उन्हें पता नहीं।

प्यार जब इन युवकों से पूछा गया कि क्या उन्हें अपने प्यार के इजहार में परेशानी महसूस होती है? इस पर 61.5 फीसदी शादीशुदा पुरुषों ने कहा कि हम अपने पार्टनर को कितना प्यार करते हैं, हमें यह बताना नहीं आता। करीब 30.4 फीसदी लोगों ने कहा कि उनमें अपने पार्टनर के लिए प्यार का इजहार करने की भावना स्वाभाविक रूप से नहीं आती, जबकि 8.1 फीसदी लोगों ने कहा, नहीं, यह बहुत ज्यादा मुश्किल नहीं है।

जब भारतीय युवकों से पूछा गया कि अगर उन्हें कुछ अलग ढंग से प्यार का इजहार करने का मौका दिया जाए तो क्या वह ऐसा करना चाहेंगे? इस पर 74.6 फीसदी लोगों ने हां में जवाब दिया। 17.5 फीसदी लोगों ने कहा कि यह अलग-अलग चीजों पर निर्भर करेगा। 7.9 फीसदी लोगों ने कहा कि हम इसके बारे में सोचेंगे। 

ऑनलाइन सर्वेक्षण में 24 से 32 साल की उम्र के युवाओं के 6,730 जवाब आए।शादी डॉट कॉम के सीईओ गौरव रक्षित ने कहा, “यहां शादी डॉट कॉम में हमारा विश्वास है कि शादियों की नींव प्यार और समानता की बुनियाद पर टिकी होती है। एक-दूसरे के लिए अपने प्यार का इजहार करते रहना सफल विवाहित जीवन की कुंजी है।”

Smart Kaise Bana Jaye

Smart Kaise Bane? Ek common question jo har kisi ke dimag mein kabhi na kbhi toh zaroor aata hai. Kaye baar toh hum personality ko blame karke kisi se baat bhi nhe kar pate. Hmare dimag mein bas yhe aata hai ki hum uske layak nahi hai, hamari personality usko suit nahi karti wagera wagera. Bahut se log jab kisi smart aur Handsome person ko dekhte hai to vo apne dimag par jor daal kar chup chap sochte hai ki, wo bhi unki tarah smart kaise ban sakte hai? Aaj-kal logo me bahut confusion hai, ki wo smart kaise bane, sabse pahle to aap ye soche ki aap smart hone ka kya matlab samjhte hai, or kya smart banne ke liye aap sab jaruri cheez seekh sakte hai.

ATTITUDE WALI LADKI PATANE KE TIPS 

Kuch log to is baat par bahas karte hai ki, log smart by birth hote hai unka wo intelligence level ya smartness baad mein kabhi change nahi ho sakti. Jabki aisa sab kehna galat hai kyunki personality age ke sath badhti hai. Jaise jaise aapko trends ki samjh aane legti hai aap implement karte ho waise waise ap smart bante rehte ho. Kya aap bhi is topic par confuse hai ki smart banne kaise? To bas karna kuch nahi aur niche diye steps ko padh ke implement karna hai.

▼ Educating Yourself

Education level aapke status, aapke living style ko bahut tarah se define karti hai. Hamesha apne dimag me rakhe ki education koi bekar cheez nahi jisse aapko school ya college me karne ko force kiya jaye, aapko khud apni aas pass ki duniya ki samajh honi chaiye. Or aap apne khud ke experiences se bhi sikh sakte hai, isse kayi baar unschooling bhi kaha jata hai. Aap kyi kisam ki books bhi padh sakte hai, or aapki jankari ke liye bata du ki duniya ke smartest log roj padhte hai. Aap isse hamesha enjoy nahi kar payenge, par isse aapke dimag ko bahut type ke new ideas or experience milte hai. Aapka way of speaking, talking and behaving aapki smartness ko define karta hai. Iske liye aap kuch tips padh sakte ho, vocabulary ke liye newspaper, etc.

▼ Expanding Your Horizons

Aapko new languages seekhni chahiye, isse aap new logo ke sath connect ho sakte hai or new ideas ke sath bhi. Aur jab aap naye logo se miloge, naye cheezo seekhoge, naye trends, style, etc, isse implement karne se aap mein bahut change aayega. Bas aapko thoda patience se kaam lena hai or positive rehna hoga. Iske ilawa aapko new jagah par jana chahiye, jitna aapse ho sake or aap new countries me bhi jaane ka try kar sakte hai. Isse aapko universe ke bare me pata chalega, or ye aapko open minded, smart or interesting bana dega. Kabhi bhi wo ek cheez hi mat kijiye jo aapko aati hai, aapko use alawa bhi bahut kuch try karna chahiye. Naye cheezo ko explore akrne se aapke mind ki bhi growth hoti hai aur personality bhi develop hoti hai.

▼ Developing Good Habits

Naye cheeze seekhna good habits hai. Naye cheeze means agar aap kahin naye jagah pe ja rahe ho aur waha kuch aisa hai jisme baare mein aapko nahi pata toh aapko in sab ke baare mein puchte rehna chahiye. Isse aapka skill set badhta hai aur aapka mind smart hota hai. But iske liye aapko pata hona chahiye ki aap kise puchna chahte ho, koi aisa friend jo aapko demoralize na kare. Aapko khud ke liye har hafte goals set karne chaiye. Aapko apna time education ko dena chaiye, khud ko padhane ke liye or agar aapko smart banna to aapko isme thodi mehnat to karni padegi. Aisa nahi hai ki aap ye sab kuch ek hi din ya raat me sikh jayenge, magar aap aapna jitna time isse denge utna hi fayeda ye aapko degi.

▼ Exercising Your Brain

Aapko puzzles par kaam karna chahiye jaise ki rubik’s cube ya sudoku, in puzzles ko solve karne se aapka brain working me rakhta hai or aapki mental capabilities badhti hai. Aapka dimag ek muscle hai, or aapko iske liye exercise karni hogi. Aap drawing ya painting bhi kar sakte ho or apna jyada tar time apni khud ki problem solves karte huye spend karna chahiye. Ya aap kahani ya poetry bhi likh sakte ho, kyunki creative writing aapke dimag ko force karega ki wo new situations or dailouge banaye. Ye aapki sochne ki shakti ko badhayega.  

[[[LADKI PATANE JA RAHE HAI TO YE BAATE HAMESHA YAAD RAKHE]]]

Hamesha logo se acha behave kare, isse unhe aap me maturity, class or intelligence ke gun aayenge. Fir chahe aap khi par na bhi ho or aapke baare me baat hogi to sab acha hi bolenge. Hamesha yaad rakhe ki aap sabse jyada dusre logo se hi sikhte hai. Aap apne friends se ya apne janne waalo se ussi bare me baat karein jis bare me unhe pata nahi hai or sath me dhyan bhi rakhein ki kabhi is baat ka show off na kare. Smart(genius) wohi hota hai jo badi badi baaton ko ek simple tarike se logo ko samjha de.

To friends, ye the Smart Kaise Banne ke kuch lajawab tips. Umeed hai aapko jarur pasand aaye honge. Agar ab bhi aapko apni smartness me kuch kami lagti hai to aap comment karke humse koi bhi problem share kar sakte hai, Hume aapki problem solve karne me khushi hogi. Smart kaise bane Kuch puchne ke liye aap niche diye gaye comment box me apna question likh kar humse puch sakte hai.. 

BY LOVEGURU SHAAN HASHMI

Ladki ke Baar Baar Dekhne par Kya Karna Chaiye

Kya aapke sath bhi kabhi aisa hua hai ki koi ladki jab bhi aapke samne aati ho to wo aapse najre milati ho, ya phir wo aapko kabhi kabhi chup chup ke notice karti hai, to aap is soch me padh jate hai ki uske taraf se ye koi ishara to nahi ? Toh aap sahi hai, ye uski taraf se aapke liye ishara hi hai ki wo aapse baat karna chahte hai. Wo chahte hai ki aap use jake bulao kyunki koi bhi ladki kabhi kisi ko khud I love you ya main aapki girlfriend bana chahti hu, wo ye sab khud nahi bolti bs ishare karti hai kabhi ankhon se ya kabhi aapke baar baar samne aa ke bs baki aapko khud hi himmat dikhani hoti hai. Uska aapko baar baar notice karwana or aapke samne aate rehna sirf apka dhyan apni taraf karwane ke liye hota hai. Usse khud hi baat karni hoti hai or janna hota hai ki uske dil me kya hai, kyunki agar aap yeh nahi karte toh sari baatein wesse hi reh jati hai or koi bhi ladka jo himmat dikha paya wo use hasil kar leta hai, to ab koi ladki aapse baar baar najre milati hai toh niche diye kuch steps ko follow karein or jane ki uske dil me kya hai.

LADKI KO SEX KE LIYE KESE RAZI KARE  

Ladki ke Baar Baar Dekhne par Kya Karna Chaiye

Ab dekhte hai ki vo konse pahlu hai jin par thodi mehnat karke aap khud pata laga sakte hai ki woladki aapko baar baar kyu dekhti hai. Bs ab sab janne ke liye zaroorat hai toh in points ko padne ki, jo aapko sab kuch ache se clear kar denge aur bata denge, ladki ladki ke baar dekhne pe kya ishara hai aapke liye.

Confused About Hints

Jyada-tar mens samaj hi nahi pate ki ye ek hint hai hamare liye or wo sochte hai ki ladki hume normally dekh rahi hai par aisa nahi hota, hamesha dhyan mein rakhein ki ladki aapke pass kabhi khud chal kr nahi aayegi aapko hi jana padega, so agar aapko lagta hai ladki aapko dekh rhi hai to jyada socho mat aur jaa kar baat karo. Aur waise bhi friends ladki kisi ko aise hi baar baar nahi dekhti kuch na kuch reason toh hoga, toh bas is ishare ko aise jane mat do, aur jaake use baat karo. Aur since wo khud aapse baat karna chahte hai toh aap tension mat lo wo aapko kuch galat reaction nahi degi.

Self Confidence

Jis din aap plan karlo ki aap unse baat karne wale hai aaj toh us din kuch baaton ka dhyan rakhna, jaise ki self confidence, saaf suthre rehna, ache kapde phenna or hairstyle acha ho or jisse ki wo aapko nazdik se dekh kar koi kamiyan na nikal paaye. Apni taraf se uske liye pura perfect ban ke jana. Aur haan kuch jyada change mat hoke jana kyunki aap use aise hi pasand ho jaise aap ho tabhi wo aapko itna notice karti hai.

LADKI SE PHONE NUMBER MANGNE KA TARIKA

Impression

Fir aap unse jo bhi baat karne wale hai, use ek baar apne man me soch le kyunki ladkiyon se baat karte time bahut logo ki bolti band ho jati hai or isse aapka impression un par galat pad sakta hai. Fir agar ladki ne Haan bhi karni ho tab bhi vo us waqt naa kar degi. Toh isliye jo bhi baat kare confidence se karna kyunki aap kuch galat nahi kar rahe ho, isse aapka impression positive rahega uspe.

Think Positive About Herself

Kabhi bhi us ladki ke samne dusri ladkiyon ki baat mat karein, kyunki use ye bilkul acha nahi lagega or bhi jab aap usse pehli baar baat kar rahe ho or wo aapko wahi bye bye kar degi. Bas aapko ye baatein dhyan me rakhni hai, kyunki ladkiyan kabhi bhi aapko yeh nahi bolegi ki unko ye acha nahi laga bs wo sari baatein apne mun me rakhti hai or aapke bareh me galat galat sochne lag jayegi or aapko is bare me kuch nahi batayegi or aapko kabhi pata hi nahi chalega ki usne aapko ignore karna kyu or kab shuru kar diya. Ladkiyan battein man me rakh ke bas ignorance or gusse se apni narazgi dikhati hai.

Make Her Friend First

Jab aap usse baat karenge to kabhi bhi sidha use girlfriend banne ko ya kiss, sex ke liye mat bole kyunki isse bhi aapka impression kharab ho sakta hai, agar wo aapko khud bole to baat alag hai, magar aap ye baat usse na hi karein to aapke liye thik hoga kyunki wo ladki hai or use koi bhi baat kabhi bhi buri lag sakti hai aapko har baat shuruwat se karni hogi, jaise shuruwat me use apna friend bnaye fir ageh ke bare me soche. Bas apna first impression decent ladko wala rakhna aur desperate toh bilkul bhi nahi.

Self  Value

Jaise wo aap me interested hai waise hi aap bhi usme interested ho magar jab tak wo aapse kuch puche na tab tak aap usko apne bare me kuch mat bataye yha tak ki apna naam bhi use na btaye kyunki jo cheez logo ko asani se mil jati hai log uski kadar karna nahi jante. Bas apna attitude down to earth rakhein kahin use ye bhi na lage ki aap bas usi ki wajah se baat kar rahe hai warna aapka koi interest nahi hai, nahi toh tabhi bye bye ho jayegi.

Make Her Feel Special

Agar wo aapse milna chahti hai ya aapse baat karna chahti hai, to kabhi bhi use intezzar na karwaye balki usse ja kar mile or uski baat ko sune or jawab de. Use special feel karwaye or uske bare me har baat notice kare ki wo bolti kaise hai, hasti kaise hai fir usme jo aapko acha lagta hai us bare me uski sachi tarif kare isse use acha mehsus hoga. Use notice karneke sath sath uske baaton pe bhi dhyan de aur actively uske sath conversation mein part lena aapka impressio good banayega.

To friends, ye vo tips hai jo sahi dhang se implement kiye jaaye to hamesha kaam karte hai. Aur ye sab batate hai aapko agar ladki ladki baar dekhti hait toh iska kya matlab hai. So bas ab aap ek baar fir se sab tips ko padh lo, taki kisi bhi tarah ki koi confusion na reh jaaye aur fir ho jaao shuru… Best of Luck . Kuch aur help chahiye ho toh batana zaroor. Uske liye toh aapko pata hi hai kya karna..hmm. sahi kaha..comment box mein apne views drop karo aur mere se baat karo.

BY LOVEGURU SHAAN HASHMI

Anjan Ladki Se Baat Karne Ke Tarike

Hello friends, Aapki Friend Shivshi ka Aapko pyar bhara dil se Namaskar Friends, Aaj kal ke youngsters jab bhi kisi khubsurat anjaan ladki ko dekhte hai to wo kehte hai – “Yeh ladki to bahut hi hot hai” ya `Mast` ya `Sexy` word ka use karte hai. Vo kehte hai ki is Ladki Figure kitna mast hai. Aapne ladko ko ye Kahte aksar suna hoga ki – “Ek baar iska number mil jaaye to Jannat jaha ho jaaye” and you all understand what I am saying. Par doston, Bhut se humare friends aise hai jinke man me kisi ladki se baat karne ki tammana jamane se hai par vo samjh hi nhi paate ki us ladki se vo aakhir baat kya kare. Baat Shuruwaat ki kaise Kare. To aaj hum un pyare aur sharmile friends ki problem solve karne ki thaan chuke hai. Khush ho jayiye dost kyuki Main yani ki aapki pyari friend Shivshi aapko bta rhi hu ki jab aapke pyare se dil me kisi pyari si ladki se baat karne ke arman jaage to aapko kya karna chahiye.

Anjan Ladki Se Baat Karne Ke Tarike

Dekho friend, kisi se bhi baat karni koi bhut bada kaam nhi hai, ye bhut hi simple process hai aur isme ghabrane wali koi baat nhi hai. Kya problem hai ? Ki baat shuru kaise kare ? Dekho, Jab bhi hume kisi anjaan ladki se baat shuru karni hoti hai to hum sabse Hi / Hello ka sahara lete hai. Uski tareef karte hai. Thoda bahut flirt aur Halki fulki batcheet ke baad uska naam puchte hai aur ek normal si introduction share karte hai. Fir handshake karke usse friendship badhate hai. These all things are done normally jab hum kisi anjaan ladki se baat shuru karte hai. Chahe wo offices me ho ya kahi aur like Schools, Tuition Classes, Metro Station, Bus Stops etc ye tareeka har jagah kaam karta hai.

Is tarike se hum usse baat karna shuru karte hai, jo sabse muskil kaam hota hai. Fir uske baare me detail pata karte hai. Jase ki Vo kaha rahti hai, aur aaj kal kya chal raha hai, study kya karti hai aur kha karti hai agr study nhi karti to kya karti hai. Job karti hai to kha karti hai, uska kaam kya hai. Office ya college kaise aana jana hota hai and all that. Agar ladki PG ya Hostel me rehti hai to uske baare me poochte hai, aap kay parents kya karte hai is tarike se baat shuru karte hai aur achi bonding create karte hai.

Jab us ladki se baate hone lagti hai tab fir hum usse jokes share karte hai, hansi Majak karte hai and uska number mangte hai ya usse Fb id per request bhejte hai or kehte hai ki – “Request bheji hai, accept kar lena. Nahi to when I’ll become a celebrity one day then you will remember me so before it happens Accept my friend request and give me your number for the future. Iske saath hi apne baare me batate hai.

Personality acchi rakhte hai. Ache kapde pehante hai Aur acha hair style rekhte hai and uski taareef karte hai. Agar aapke dimag me ye sawal aa rha hai ki uski tareef kaise kare to vo bhi bata dete hai. Tareef karna koi muskil kaam nhi balki tareef to vo vardan hai jo ladki ko jitna de do utna kam, par han shi tarike se. tareef karne ke liye kuch sochne ki jrurat nhi. Keh do ki aapke upar ye dress bahut hi hot lag rahi hai ya aaj to aap chamak rahe ho or uski smile par kisi purane shayar ka koi gazal chipka dete hai. Smile sabki achi hoti hai isliye iski tareef aap kabhi bhi kar sakte hai iske liye aapko maukha dekhne ki jrurat nhi. Bas itna kuch ho gya fir Anjan ladki anjan nhi rehti, Friend ban jaati hai aur kismat achi ho to Girl Friend bhi ban jaati hai.

To doston ye the tarike kisi bhi anjaan ladki se baat shuru karne ke liye. Yakeen maniye ye tips hamesha kaam karte hai. Bas aajmate time aap confidence bana ke rakhna aur ghabrana mat. Agr koi sawal, suggestion ya complaint ho to niche diye huye comment box me likh kar hum tak pahuchaye. Hum yha hai hi aapki help karne ke liye. Pyar ki Sachi Khaniya padhe aur Health Tips bhi padhe kyunki doston Aashiqui ke saath saath healthy aur fit rehna bhi jruri hai.

larki ko sex ke liye kaise razi kya jae

Ager larki se sex kerna ho aur os ko razi kerna ho to sub se pehly to ap k behaviour se osy pata chalna chahiye k ap os mein interested ho . Phr dekho k os k responce positve hai ya negtive . Ager to positve hai to baton baton mein os k sex jazbat ko obharo aur kbi os k lips ya kbi boobs ya kbi face ki tareef kerty raho aur phr os ko ahsta ahsta touch kerna shuroo ho jao aur moka dekh ker kiss b ker do mera ni khial k wo sex k liye razi na ho . Ye process 1 se 2 month ka hai . Try kero aur result batana . 
Aur 2nd thing k ager os ka responce negtive ho to ap kisi aisy moka ki talash mein raho k ap os k tanha dekh ker os k kiss ya hug ker sako . 90 % larkian darti hai aur ghr walon ko ni batati . Pehli dafa k baad he ap ko pata chal jaye ga k wo kaisi hai lakin is mein thora bohat risk hai .

Ladki Se Phone Par Kya Baat Kare

Kya aap kabhi kabhi khud bhi confuse ho jate ho jab aap khud apni girlfriend ko phone karte ho, or aapke pass kuch hota hi nahi baat karne ko? Ya kabhi aisa lagta ho jaise ki aap kisi mansik dabav se gujar rahe ho, or jab ki aap us ladki ko sach me chahte ho. Agar aisa kuch hai phir bhi aap use baat kyu nahi kar pate. Iska reason yeh bhi hai ki aapko pata hi nahi chalta usse kya baat karein aur doosre cheez aapko thoda sa ye bhi dar hota use kisi baat ka bura na lage. Aur waise bhi ho sakta hai aap kab se use baat kar rahe hai aur ab toh baatein bhi khatam hogi hai, toh bas phir chalo dekhte hai apni girlfriend ke sath kabhi na khatam hone wali baatein kaise aur kya karein. Toh ab aaj apki ek doubt toh khatam ho hi jayega, Ladki Se Phone Pe Kya Baat Kare?

Ghabraye nahi ladkiya bhi insaan hi hoti hai, or wo bhi right attitude ke sath, ab aap bhi unse phone par baat karte hue acha time nikal sakte hai. Fir chahe aap apne secret crush se baat kar rahe ho ya apni kissi dost se. Bs aapko janna hai ki ladki se phone par kya baat kare? Ye bhi ek skill hai jise agar aap seekh jate hai to wo aapke pure life-time me kaam aa sakta hai, bs aapko niche diye steps ko follow karna hai.

Sabse important baat unse baat karne ka right attitude rakho aur phir jane ki baat kya karni hai aur kaise karni hai. Aur waise bhi ladki se baat karne ki tension mat hi lo woh khud hi itna bolti hai ki aapko jyada sochna hi nahi padega. Aap bas unhe sunte rehna sab sahi hoga aur kabhi bhi argue mat karna. Agar aapki girlfriend shant nature ki hai aur kam bolti hai toh iska solution toh hum aapko bata hi rahe hai ki usse kya baat karni hai. Toh chalo bade ab apni tips ki aur.   

To chaliye aaj hum pata lgate hai wo konsi baatein or cheeze hai jinhe dhyaan me rakhne se aapki ye problem solve ho jayegi. Bas aapko sirf itna karna hai ki niche diye gaye steps ko bade hi dhyaan padhe or har baat ko step wise follow kare.

Aapke Pass Reason Hona Chaiye Call Karne ka

Agar aapke pass reason hoga to aapke pass baat karne liye sab kuch hoga, or aap kabhi bhi confused feel nahi karoge. Jaise humara dil kabhi bhi kisi ko bhi phone karne ko kar jata hai. Lekin agar hum uske phone recieve karne se pahle usko phone karne ka reason soch lenge to isse hume koi nuksaan to nahi hoga, balki hum apni baat saaf saaf aksaro me bol payenge. Or humhe jyada sochna nahi padega kya baat karo? Khass kar tab jab aap ek ladki se phone par baat kar rahe ho to aapke bolne me ek sense honi chaiye, nahi to ladki bhi aapka phone uthane me 100 times sochegi. Kabhi bhi jhuta reason mat de phone karne ka jisse aapko lage ki aap uske samne khud ko cool feel karwa rahe hai. Agar aap use jyada regularly phone karte hai aur baat karne ka koi na toh reason hai aur na hi topic toh bhi ladki aapka phone uthane mein bahut baar sochegi. Isliye jab tak wo aapki achi friend nahi banti toh use apni regular calls se irritate na karo. 

Aap pahle se hi Soch le Ki Aapne kya baat karni hai

Jyadatar phone me hone wali conversation wesi nahi jati jaise ki humne sochi hoti hai. Or wo kabhi khud thik nahi hogi, for example; aap ek lambi si list likh sakte hai apne questions ki jo aap unse puchna chahte hai. Agar aap aisa karte hai to jo baatein hume phone par baat karte time tang karti hai aapki wo problem khatam ho jayegi. Bs aapko dhyaan me rakhna hai ki jo general cheeze hai aap pahle unhe hi discuss kare. Magar apni iss question ki listthoda genuine rakhein toh acha hoga kahin ise interview ki tarah na leke jana. Iss sab se aap dono bore ho jaoge aur jitna ho sake apne conversation ko humorous rakhna. Is se aap dono ka conversation mein interest bhi bana rahega aur uska bhi aapse baat karne ka man kar raha hoga.

Bina Hesitation Ke Call Kare

Ab agar aapke paas baat karne ka reason bhi hai aur ye bhi pata hai aapko kya baat kis tarah se karni hai toh phir itna sochna hi kyu. Jitna jyada aap sochoge usko call karne ka, utna hi aap late karoge aur utna hi aapki call ko wrong way mein lia jaa sakta hai. Toh itna sochne ki jagah phone uthao aur bas use call karo aur haan yaad rakhna call karte waqt apna confidence bana ke rakhna taki use kuch galat intitution na aaye aapki call se. toh bas phir apna game plan ready karo aur use call karo. Agar aap use jyada achi tarah se nahi jante toh bhi aap daily routine ke bare mein baat karke us conversation ko bada sakte ho. Toh ab soch kya rahe ho, uthao phone aur karo use call aur apni baaton ki list ko implement karo.

Sidha Baat par Aaye or Shant Rahe

Aapko ladki se phone par baat shuru karte time, kabhi bhi kisi choti si baat ko karne me bhi jyada time nahi lena chaiye. Aisa purane time ke log karte hai, or aisa karna aapko ulta bhi padh sakta hai. Isse aap use bhi confuse kar denge ki aapne use actually call kiya kyun tha. Apni love talk ke pura hone ke baad, sidha apne kaam par aye ki aapne use col kyun kiya hai. Kuch ladkiyo ko phone par baat karte time ladko ka nervous hona ya flustered(ghabaraya hue) hona cute lagta hai. Lekin aap aisa har baar nahi kar sakte. Kyunki baki ladkiya, jo ki phone me logo ko unke emotions ke sath judge nahi karti, to usko lagega ki aap usko frustrated kar rahe hai, ya uska time waste kar rahe ho. Isliye hamesha aaram se or shant re kar baat kare.

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Conversation two sided honi chahiye. Ye nahi ki hamesha aap bollte hi raho aur naa hi ye ki hamesha sunte hi raha karo, jise use lage ki aap uski baaton mein bilkul interested nahi ho. Toh conversation mein equally part lena bahut zaroori hai. Kuch aap bolo, kuch uski suno. Kuch discuss kar rahe ho toh mutual result pe aao. Itne mein hi aapko baat karne ke liye bahut kuch mil jata hai. Kabhi bhi puri baat-chit me non-stop na bole. Jab wo bolti hai to bade hi dhyaan se sune or kabhi bhi bich me na bole. Or agar wo boli hi ja rahi bade time se to aap use aise show kare jaise ki aap bade dhyan se sun rahe hai or aap han han? Ya hmm hmm bhi kar sakte hai. Or use bolne de. Aur agar wo kuch puch rahe hai toh usko sahi se us baat ka solution bhi batao, uspe hmm hmm ya pata nahi ka reply dene se aapka negative impression padh sakta hai. Use lag sakta hai ki aap use baat karne mein bilkul interested nahi ho.

Call Ka End Bade hi Pyaar se Kare

Agar aapki sari baatein khatam ho gayi hai, to aapko kuch khene ki jarurat nahi hai. Aap call katne ke liye pure satisfied hai. Jab aapko aisa lagta hai ki ise jari rakhne ka koi matlab nahi hai, to aap simply kuch aisa bol sakte ho jaise ki well, I should probably go now(ki thik hai, ab mujhe chalna chaiye) mujhe kuch kaam hai. Aapse baat karke acha laga, use respond karne ka mooka de, apni taraf se goodbye bole, fir intezaar kare.

To friends, ye the Ladki Se Phone Par Kya Baat Kare?  ke kuch ache or shaandar tips. Aasha hai aapko ye tips jarur pasand aaye honge. Agar ab bhi aapke mun me koi bhi doubt hai to aap niche comment karke humare sath apni koi bhi problem share kar sakte hai. Hume aapki help karne me khushi hogi. Hum chahte hai har ladka in tips ko padhe aur apni life me is topic me sudhar laye, taaki humari is duniya me kisi bhi ladke ko kisi ladki se phone par baat karte time koi problem na ho. Best of luck guys.

BY LOVE GURU SHAAN HASHMI

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Ladki Se Phone Number Mangne Ka Tarika

Ladki Se Phone Number Mangne Ka Tarika

Kya aap bhi kisi anjaan ladki ka phone number lena chahte hai but dikat ye hai ki kaise le? Humare pass iska tod hai is article me bataye gaye tarike aapki madad karenge.

1. Pahle Ladki Pasand Kar Le

Agar aapko phone number chahiye to sabse pahle aapko apne liye ladki pasand karni hogi, esi ladki jise dekhkar aapke hosh ud jaye. Jise dekhar aapka usse baat karne ka mann kare. Wese to rooj aaye din ladko ki kitni ladki pasand aati hai but ladki ese chune jo aapko serious me pasand ho. Fir uske baad baari aati hai use apni aur attract karne ka, tabhi to bhai wo ladki tumhe notice karegi. Usko apni aur attract karne ke liye aapme thodi bahut quality to honi chahiye jaise ki, high personality, dressing sense, baat karne me maharat hasil ho ya kuch esi cheez jo aap kar sakte hai aur koi nahi. Kisi anjaan ladki ko apni aur attract karna thoda bahut muskil hai but namumkin nahi. Agar aapme confidence hai to aap kar sakte ho.

2. Dhyan Rakhe Ki Sidha Phone Number Na Manga Le

Jyadataar ladko ko sabar nahi hota hai aur wo sidha direct ja kar kisi bhi ladki ka phone number maang lete hai, ese me 80% chance aapke na ke ho jate hai fir uske baad kahi aur try marte hai. To agar aapke dimaag me ese hi khyaal panap rahe hai to use dimaag se nikaal le. Kisi anjaan ladki se agar aap sidha phone number maang logo to bhai agli shock to ho jayegi, koi ladki kisi ajaan ladke ko kaise phone number de sakti hai aap ye pahle batao. Wo bhi kahegi ki, “jaan na pahchaan tu mera mehmaan”. Ese me aapka impression down ho jayega uske samne aur aapka agli baar uske samane koi chance bhi nahi ban payega. Kahte hai na ki, “First Impression Is The Last Impression”. To apne dimaag me ye baat bitha lo ki dhyan se bhi kisi ladki ka number pahle na le.

3. Fir Usse Dosti Kare

Agar aapko koi ladki pasand aagyi to fir uske baad aapko usse baat karne ka mann to karega hi. To ese me aapko usse dosti kar leni chahiye kueki dosti se hi aap usse baat kar sakte ho. Agar aap uske liye anjaan ho to esi situation me aapko sabse pahle uske dosto ke sath dosti karni hogi. Hum aapko esa isliye kah rahe hai kueki ladki ke liye aap anjaan ho to wo apse kaise dosti kar sakti hai. Agar aap ek baar uske dosto ke sath ghul mil gye to ese me aap usse bhi mil sakoge aur baat bhi kar sakoge.

4. Usse Najdikiya Badhaye

Agar ek baar aapki usse dosti ho gyi to kosish kare ki aap uske jitne najdik ja sake chale jaye, ese me aap usko ache se jaan paoge aur wo aapko jaan payegi. Jaise ki uska favorite color kon sa hai, khane me kya pasand hai, kaha jana pasand hai, kis type ke gane use pasand hai etc. Ye sab aap tabhi puch sakte ho jab wo aapke sath ho. Use kahi ghumne ke liye offer kare, lunch ke liye ya movie dekhne ke liye. Agar aapke pass car hai use kahi long drive pe le jaye.

5. Fir Uske Baad Number Le

Jab aap dono me itni baat hone lage to tab ja kar aap uska phone number mang sakte ho ya kya pata wo aapko pahle apna phone number de de. Jab ek baari aapko uska phone number mil gya to tab aap use achi tarah se aur jaan sakoge. Ye hota hai ek dum step by step tarika, agar aap ye sab tarike ek ek kar ke follow karoge to defiantly aap uska phone number pa sakte ho. Dhyan de ki jaldibaji na kare aur thoda patience rakhe.

To friends aapko humara ye article kaisa laga, humne yaha pe aapko 5 tips bataye hai jis ki madad se aap kisi bhi ladki ka phone number le sakte ho. Agar aapko iske alawa kuch bhi problem ati hai humne comment box par jarur comment kare hume apki help karenge. Please is article jo jitna ho sakte utna share kare social networkings sites pe. Take care and have a nice day.

BY LOVEGURU SHAAN HASHMI